babys dad.

Debbie - posted on 04/10/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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im only 15 weeks pregnant only found out two weeks ago fell out with the babys dad 3 months ago as he left me for another woman and now expects me to get back with him because im pregnant but i dont want him to have anything to do with my child as he wont give me any money for they baby and expects me too get everything and he shouts st me all the time and tells me i better leave my bf or else expects to have it 4 days a week i just want him out my life! help xxx

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Anita - posted on 04/22/2013

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Okay, First you are a strong person and remember that as you read my reply really listen to the words I am writing.
Do NOT get with him just because you are pregnant as of the tenth when this was posted you had been pregnant for three months and three weeks. You were alone during that time period and you should not have been. You also need to take him to court because by law he can take you to court and take your baby away from you and then that is only going to hurt the child in the end. Do not tell him anything you are planning on doing. Go file for CS and rights to the child that is your baby and if he can not be a real man now what makes you think he will be when the baby comes. I know this is mean but I am being for real. I can say from my personally experiences you have to be the mom and dad 99.9% of the time so just do what you gotta do for your child. It is always about the child and remember you are strong and not alone.
Anita

Corynne - posted on 04/10/2013

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That's tough. There really isn't a solution you can get now for what happens in the future. The only thing you can do is try to live your life with the intention to be the best mom you can be for this baby. The more you remove yourself from drama and focus on educating yourself on parenting the better equipped you will be to handle the tough times ahead. If its not in your best interest to be with him then don't be. I advise you do what you can to move on while keeping the peace. Maybe your life will be so boring to him he'll run in the opposite direction, lol that would be a good thing. It's important for kids to grow up with their dads but some dads damage their kids more than benefit them. Remember keep the peace.

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