Conflicted On Having Third Child

Asilee - posted on 05/24/2017 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Sorry if I posted this in the wrong community forum, but I couldn't exactly find where to post this.

I need a little advice or insight. I'm a mother of 2 with one on the way - I'm five weeks. I'm conflicted on having this third child because I want to go and get certified; go to school and become a mechanic. I'm 29 years old, I'll be 30 this year and I'm not sure if this baby will hinder my goals. I'm not sure if I should go through with the pregnancy. I feel I'll completely lose what little freedom or what little time I do have for myself to another child. I don't have any support if I do keep the baby beside the father but we're not together and he's at work all of the time. Both of us come from very dysfunctional families are sorely unreliable. I'm not exactly in the best financial situation either. And to add, my birth control FAILED. I will be getting an IUD this time.


Does anyone have any advice or insight? It'll be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

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Asilee - posted on 05/26/2017

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Sarah E. Ever hear of birth control failing? Because that's exactly what happened. Did you bother reading the entire post? When you start off with: "Not to sound harsh..." You really are doing just that. That's like saying, "Not to be racist" then say something blatantly racist. Thanks for nothing. Won't be returning to this "community" of judgy soapbox SAHmonsters.

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