Deadbeat baby daddy.

Brittany - posted on 11/24/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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He refuses to tell anyone that he has a baby on the way, he refuses to add me on Facebook because of it. He claims that he's not the father and if I file for child support he won't pay and will destroy everything I love. I'm tired of him and I don't want to be with him, which only makes the situation worse. He says that unless I'm dating him, he won't be a father to our baby. The only thing that bothers me is him not wanting to be a father to the kid. How do I get over it? It breaks my heart more and more each day.

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Tori Dee - posted on 11/24/2013

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I have no idea how that may feel because I'm married and the father has always been there but honestly I think if I was in your position, yeah it may hurt that the father won't be there but that shouldn't be your main focus because either way you're going to have to care for the child and if you hold on to the fact that he doesn't want to be there, your going to take it out on the child.. Not on purpose but it's just natural.. So if he doesn't want to be in his life, the worse thing you can do is beg him too so put him on child support.. He doesn't have a choice to pay because it comes out of his check automatically unless he doesn't have a job.. And do the best you can.. It's him that's going to miss out so I wish you the best of luck.. And remember that GOD is the one that provides for you.. So with or without him trust me you guys will be just fine. God works in mysterious ways so keep your head up, stay positive and thank God he chose you to be that child's mother :)

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