Due Date Dilemma?

Libby - posted on 11/06/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )




Hello everyone! I am a first time mother and so would like some feedback from veteran moms. When I had my first apt with my midwife I guessed that my last period was around March 25th (thanks to my husband who believes he is always correct with dates). She estimated my due date at December 30th. When I was at 19 weeks, we had our first and last ultrasound and according to its results, my little Maelee was 11 ounces and she is due on Dec. 26th. However, I have been hitting milestones early and have always suspected I'm farther along than that. Yesterday I rediscovered an old calendar I had written in that marked March 20th as the day I knew I was pregnant (due to cramping and other signs starting on that day). I never had a period after that date. I'm not quite sure when my last period was (I do know the last "period" I had was not a period; more like light spotting), but I do know that the cramping typically happens 6-12 days after conception (or when the egg implants) and can also happen up to 4 weeks after conception.... I had light spotting somewhere in the very beginning of March, knew I was pregnant the 20th.... If that is correct the latest my due date could be is around Nov. 30th correct? Am I over thinking this?! I just want to be prepared for when my baby is going to come; and that is almost a month of discrepancy?! Should I go with the ultrasound due date or my own calculations? Help! :)


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Leslie - posted on 11/18/2012




I agree with Brittany- baby will get here when it gets here, just be prepared early (which is a good thing anyway, right?!)

We are going through the same thing- our estimated due date is Feb 19, but I did not have a cycle for 2 months when we noticed- it was a VERY stressful time for us, but the docs assumed I became prego the second month- DD is measuring big (not enough to change her date, but by about 5 days) and I am HUGE to just be 6 months! Dad has also been able to feel her by what was 17-18 weeks, which I think is really early! We are planning on being prepared by the first of the year, just in case, because even our second child was 2 weeks early with no warning!

Best of luck to you!

Brittney - posted on 11/06/2012




If you have had an ultrasound, then go by that date. Baby will come when baby comes, you cant really predict it.

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