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Sarah - posted on 01/15/2016 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I am having alot of problems with my baby daddy. I am 4 months pregnant and I told him I am pregnant but after I told him he started loosing any contact with me. I put a restraining order on him for stalking me and following me ....he's using women as rebounds ..my friends tell me that they see him at car meets and mind you he's 27 and has a daughter from previous relationship .... I call him to see if he wants to be in his baby's life when I call he takes me to voicemail . I don't know what to do at this point. I want to do right with my child to bring his father in his life but he is acting childish. Can anyone help me.

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Carol - posted on 01/27/2016

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First of all.. you need to keep yourself calm because you don't want to go through so much stress when you are pregnant. It is not good for the baby. Leave him alone. If he wants to talk to you he will. Just focus on yourself and the child. If he wants to be in the baby's life, he will let you know and if he doesn't he will show you that also. You need to get your ducks in a row, daycare, money, etc. Don't worry about him you have enough on your plate.

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Shamel - posted on 02/07/2016

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Don't stress yourself about the situation. Your baby is your priority. Mentally prepare yourself to be a mother & be willing to accept the fact that he may not be present in your child's life. It's hard and it's sad but your health, your baby's health, & your peace is way more important!

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