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Sarah - posted on 01/15/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I am having alot of problems with my baby daddy. I am 4 months pregnant and I told him I am pregnant but after I told him he started loosing any contact with me. I put a restraining order on him for stalking me and following me ....he's using women as rebounds ..my friends tell me that they see him at car meets and mind you he's 27 and has a daughter from previous relationship .... I call him to see if he wants to be in his baby's life when I call he takes me to voicemail . I don't know what to do at this point. I want to do right with my child to bring his father in his life but he is acting childish. Can anyone help me.

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Heather - posted on 01/22/2016

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Ugh. I'm going through something similar. Just 48 hours before I found out I was pregnant, I caught baby daddy lying about porn and I told him I couldn't live like that anymore, so I split in a flurry ( This was after enduring a handful of other betrayals of many shapes and colors for 18 months) . When we met two days later to discuss the separating of our things, I broke the pregnancy news to him. He was flabbergasted. We decided to try and work things out and called it a clean slate. Within, I don't know, maybe three or four days he declared that we were having problems before all this and then accused me of entrapment, kicked me out and I've barely heard from him since. Well, other than an email a week ago asking if I was still pregnant. I've heard through the grapevine that he's now the bell of the ball and surrounded by supporting friends. Who would do something so monstrous?! Who would support a person who was committing the behavior!! This is agonizing. I'm scouring these blogs looking for a happy ending to these all too common tragic abandonment stories.
We'll get through this.

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