I don't Hurt During sex but after!

Tiphanie - posted on 02/20/2010 ( 7 moms have responded )

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Ok so sex is real good during. But afterwards when i get up and go to the bathroom and walk around my virgina starts to hurt like its going to fall out, or its splitting open or swallon. its hard to explain what it feels like but its painful. But once i sit down and stay still it goes away. Does this happen to anyone else? And Should i stop having sex im 35 weeks along due date is March 27th next month.

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Ashley - posted on 03/02/2010

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i have actually been uncomfortable both during and after
i found switching up dfferent positions can prevent hurting during but i still get the after feels. it hurts to pee and feels like if i sneeze the baby might fall out lmao
u have totaly lost my sex drive and im almost 37 weeks. cant wait to have him and get back to normal.
good luck

Maria - posted on 04/19/2013

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That happend to me too. this is actually my first time im 15 weeks pregnant and laying down helps alot! But I could feel it very uncomfortable and need to just keep my legs wide open....can some one please let me know why that seems to happen.. Thnkx!!!

Whitney - posted on 03/01/2010

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I have this same thing but I've realized it's from the on/off pressure put on your pelvic bone...it always feels like my pelvic bone is bruised! You said it feels better when you sit down? Same with me, but you know what feels the most amazing in this case? Sitting on a birthing ball....oh man. It's awesome

Steph - posted on 02/21/2010

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i have the same problem. for me its from my partner going to fast and hard. So i had to make him slow down. I stopped having sex when i was 30weeks. But i did get it once a week or so.



Hope that helps

Emma - posted on 02/27/2010

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I know the feeling, not during but after. Now, I've just no sex drive as I'm nearly 37 weeks lol

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Samantha - posted on 02/22/2010

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Im so there with you! i have found that if i use some lube it helps a little. after sex is over i take a cold ice cube/cold water on the places that hurt you!

Michelle - posted on 02/21/2010

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I had this with each pregnancy and really did not want to give up sex . I found that spooning postion really helped !
You have more blood flowing to that region of your body which can make your cervix and other things more sensitive and hurt after sex . Lubercation may cut down on the friction , and trying to go slower may help . Also try different positions . I know being preg it is hard some times to get comfy , but try "spooning" position , it may cut down on how far he penetrates you .

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