Just lost a twin... : ((

Roslyn - posted on 11/25/2010 ( 6 moms have responded )




I had a scan at 13 weeks and my little twinnies were great.....went back for scan yesterday at 16 weeks and was told i have lost one.....trying to keep my chin up as we have another little twinny to think about but i am so worried about this one.....i just keep worrying that the same thing will happen when i go for my next scan....

I have a little girl who is almost 2 so i am very blessed but please keep us in your prayers that twin 2 will make it.....

Ros xxxx


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Sofie - posted on 12/02/2010




im so sorry for your loss i knwo how you are feelin as at the beinin of this year i found out i was pregnant with twins at my 14 week scan i had lost 1 i was terrified as i had lost 2 sets of twins before and thought the same as you and that i would loose the second 1 but i have managed to get to full term now just waiting on her arrival any day now so keep positive xxx

Suzi - posted on 12/01/2010




I'm so sorry for your loss, You are doing the right thing by concentrating on the one you have left, like you said you are blessed, I do know how you feel as i found out i lost a baby in feb by going to the scan and am carryin now, due in 4 weeks, and every movement is a godsend just to know he is stil ok , my thoughts are with you and i'll pray for you and your daughter and lil twinny x x x

Aicha - posted on 11/26/2010




I'm so sorry for your loss Roslyn , I know it is hard but try not to worry my 1st pregnancy was with twins and when I was 9 weeks along I started bleeding went to er and they said it was a threatened misscarriage what they didn't tell me was I was carrying twins and lost one I only found out much later and from reading my medical carts once I found out that a doctor lied to me I go a new doctor asap that was 11 years ago and I have a healthy son

Danielle - posted on 11/25/2010




My first pregnancy were twins, I lost both around 9 weeks. My second pregnancy were twins as well. I had an ultrasound scan around 7 weeks and saw both little babies, went back two weeks later and I had lost one :( I was scared after losing 3 babies I would lose another, but I delivered a healthy big full term baby, and feel very blessed to have him. Vanishing twin syndrome is actually very common, most don't even realize they were ever pregnant with twins because they lost one before they had an ultrasound. I'm sorry for your loss, it will take time to accept what has happened, but I can say, once your little one is here you feel so blessed.

Kaleena - posted on 11/25/2010




sorry for your loss but glad you still have one. i dont know if this will help you but i found out while pregnant with this one now that a vast majority of misscarriages are caused by chromosome abnormalities. i dont know if it will help but just think of it this way. your baby has given you all the love it had to give and is now in a better place. remember you still have one beautiful bub to think about.

Jo - posted on 11/25/2010




Awww I'm so sorry for your loss Roslyn :( Good for you keeping your chin up! I'm proud of you!!! I will be keeping you in my thoughts and sending good, positive vibes!!!

When are you due? 16 weeks... middle - late May?

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