Paranoid

Dani - posted on 12/27/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Hi ladies, well this is my second pregnancy bubs no1 is 20 months old and im 8 weeks pregnant, i feel so paranoid and worried this time that by the time i get to the 12 week scan baby will be gone or something will be wrong, has anyone else felt like this....i wasnt anything like this first time round...i just feel so anxious. :/

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Ianina - posted on 12/29/2010

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Yes...
This is my first pregnancy and I'm expecting twins. I feel SO worried that I refuse to buy them anything.
In my case, there is nothing to be worried about, but since I know that a lot of things can go wrong, I freak out...
I'm 18 weeks now and I don´t feel the babies much, a thing that drives me up a wall. I have monthly sonograms and the day of the app I'm super excited to see them but also worried that something can go wrong and the babies are going to be dead...Yes, sounds awful, but it is how I feel and there is nothing I can do about it. I think part of that is because I'm such a control freak that I can't help myself.

I was planning to talk about this with my OB and see if there is something I can do about it. I love this babies and I can't wait to have them with us.
Is good to know that I'm not the only one going throu this...

Amy - posted on 12/27/2010

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I was like this with my second because my daughter was born with a hole in her heart. So I was mad worried that it would happen with my son. But it didn't. whew. So this time around I am just kinda letting it go. But, yes, I felt exactly like that with my second.

Vanessa - posted on 12/27/2010

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It's normal ---- almost like not believing it's real.
I went through that with my first and second ones.
Now I'm scared that I'm pregnant again (i'm breastfeeding and hubby and I weren't careful about a week ago)
you'll be ok once you see that lil tiny heartbeat --- if the feelings get ultra-bad, talk to your midwife :-)

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