The Loss Of My Baby

Andrea - posted on 07/27/2010 ( 16 moms have responded )




It is with a heavy heart that I announce the death of my baby boy. Baby Gavin Michael Harris was born at 19.4 weeks on 7/23/10 at 2:05 am. This was my 5th loss. He weighed 8.30 ounces and was 10 inches long. He survived for one minute and at 2:06 am he took his final breath and passed away. He was the most perfect little person I've ever seen. The cause of my losing him was an incompetant cervix that opened with no warning signs. I've never had cervical issues in the past, which makes this more devastating, not to mention how long and hard I tried for this little baby. I spent 4 days in the hospital and was just released to come home Sunday night. I wish you all well in your pregnancies but I feel I no longer belong to this community. I hope you all deliver healthy happy babies, and maybe someday soon, I will be back to share the news of a new pregnancy and go on to deliver a healthy full term baby.


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Karen - posted on 08/08/2010




There is nothing anyone can say to ease this pain for you - but I wanted to stop by and let you know someone on the other side of the world is thinking of you, and remembering you and your children in her prayers.

Kasi - posted on 08/05/2010




i am so sorry to read about your loss. but as a young mother who is expecting i have to let you knw that all is not lost.
I pray god blesses you in the future with a healthy happy thriving baby.

Klarissa - posted on 08/05/2010





i am sorry to hear of your loss, there are no words or anything that I can say to take the pain away, but I do pray for your healing and pray that God gives you the strength during this time.

Samantha - posted on 08/01/2010




i am soooo sorry to hear of your loss,love and prayers are with you at this sad time

Ashley - posted on 07/31/2010




i am so sorry to hear about that.I had a baby girl at 22 weeks pregnant and she survived for about 3 days.its hard to lose a baby and i wish you the best luck with your next pregnancy.If you ever need anyone to talk to i am surely here for you!

Lisa - posted on 07/29/2010




so sorry for ur loss, i lost my 1st baby at 20 weeks into my pregnancy and ive never been myself since, there taken for a reason, a reason we wil never no, im expecting my 2nd chils and i am 19 weeks 4 days today all is going well. I hope you deliver a healthy baby someday soon, all my love xxx

Joy - posted on 07/28/2010




im sorry for your loss i pray that you will find comfort in the arms of all your loved ones and in the arms of God. remember that though you feel alone right now you arnt. allow your self time to cry time to greive also get some counceling that helped me when i had my 4 previous miss carriages

Tiffani - posted on 07/28/2010




I wish the best for you, and your little one whos in good hands now. I still think you should stay in this community iv read several of your post and would still like to stay informed about how your doing.

Jennifer - posted on 07/27/2010




I am so sorry for your loss. I know there is nothing anyone can say or do to ease the pain of such a loss. I myself have experienced the loss of a pregnancy, and I pray for you and your son. He is with the angels in heaven now.
God Bless!

Lenica - posted on 07/27/2010




I am so sorry to hear about your loss.
There is nothing I can say to make the pain easier but just be strong God will bless you with another baby. Everything happens for a reason and it sucks ass!
Hope you all of the best and ill pray for you!
Lots of love

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