Almost lost the baby because of babys father&family...

Alexa - posted on 06/25/2010 ( 2 moms have responded )




So the babys father & his family have put putting a ridiculous amount of stress on me which has been causing me to have anxiety attacks all the time. (Denying that the baby is theirs, mid-night phone calls screaming at me for a dna test, seeing me in public and laughing at me... And this is after being very close to his family for the entire year and a half we were together, and all through high school.) The other night I went into preterm labour, (I'm about 20 weeks) I was having contractions. Luckily, the contractions stopped, and baby is okay now. I feel I should cut off contact with the father because he doesnt care if I lose the baby or not and he continues to do nothing to help this stressfull situation and right after i told him about the preterm labour he tried to start a stressful conversation. Would it be bad if I stopped contact? I want to do whats best for my baby but I'm afraid if I stop contact with him he wont want to see the baby in the future. I dont know what to do. Advice?


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Kyrie - posted on 11/13/2010




let him make the choice. cut of contact and let him know u wont put up with it. you dont need stress. bad for u and baby. when he is ready to be a man and stand up to the plate then let him be there but until then i think u should do what u think is best for u and ur baby

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I think every man should have the chance to be a dad when the baby is born. If he doesn't succeed as a good dad then it's up to you what you do but you must remember that when she's old enough to understand she will ask questions and can meet him if she so wishes. It's bad that him and his family are acting in this way. Have they given any reason as to why they are? He needs to grow-up and be civil to the mother of his child!

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