cant seem to be lucky on relationships after my failed marriage, am I too scared to committ?

Natalie - posted on 12/19/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )




how to committ to a new relationship after marriage?


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Oh I wish I knew the answer or had some plucky advice but after 2 failed marriages, I can't. The ability to trust is fragile imo. Give yourself some time. How long depends on you but it should be after a month at least.

Plus, don't try to trust too quickly or without thinking. I did that with my 2nd husband. It had been years after my 1st marriage and I hadn't dated in so long that the first guy really interested in me was the man for me. That was a disaster. It's ruined part of my life, ruined my credit, etc.

Good luck.


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Laila - posted on 01/01/2013




I strongly agree with Lakota ....since you been divorce you have been missing that comfort feeling you had with your x so you may be vornable at this time to make any hold off and find your self first see what stage of mind you are ...and if you have kids please wait...until your 1000000 sure that he is the Mr right....

Lakota - posted on 12/19/2012




It depends on how long you have been divorced. You need time to heal. Also, depending on the reason for the divorce, you may not be able to trust someone yet. Don't worry too much about relationships right now. If you look too hard, you will accept anyone. That's not good.

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