having a husband that has another child with another women

Silva Jane - posted on 10/07/2012 ( 9 moms have responded )

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I have a hubby that has another child with his ex wife.......... why the hell does the ex wife create s**t?

Me and hubby have a 8month CUTE baby boy, and he has a 11 year old CUTE daughter that i like very much BUT her mother is a phyco....like loony in the head she is making me go mad ........

How does one stay with their parner"even though you love them so much" but the ex just doesnt ever stop with mean,bad things it is really getting out of hand!!!!!!!!!!!

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Jessica - posted on 10/09/2012

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Oh no!! Poor little thing!

It's always worse when they're that little because they can't communicate their distress as fluently as an older child.

I hope your little boy starts feeling better soon.

I pray that God will shower his blessings upon you & that you may walk in his light.

Silva Jane - posted on 10/09/2012

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Lol, well I'm from South Africa and its 11:50 in the afternoon here,I'm at work! Why u having trouble to sleep, well my baby has been restles he came out of hospital 2weeks ago he had bronchlitis so his still not better! Boo hoo... His so grumpy!

Jessica - posted on 10/09/2012

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Ok, I gotta go.

Have to take care of my sick self and 2 sick babies tomorrow.

The oldest has been having low grade fever, so she's requiring some Extra extra TLC.

I hope you have a good day & God Bless.

Jessica - posted on 10/09/2012

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LOL

USA

Lots of people have quite a few colorful names for Americans nowadays.

4:42 AM here.

Been having trouble sleeping lately.

Silva Jane - posted on 10/09/2012

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Lol, enjoy, where are u from? Which counrty? We will keep in touch, and thanks for helping me with my questions! Sometimes men can't answer lol

Jessica - posted on 10/09/2012

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Yeah, I hear ya.

Using my phone too.

Gonna have to crash for

A bit though, gonna try to get a nap, before it's officially time to get up.

LOL

Silva Jane - posted on 10/09/2012

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I will answer them shortly I'm texting from my blackberry, but as soon as I get to the office I will give u all details, then ill be infront of my laptop.

Jessica - posted on 10/09/2012

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I hate to do this, but I'm going to have to ask for more info.

I will say this though.

DH already had a child w/ this woman & unless he gets full custody and mother gets no rights, your hubby will have no choice but to have to 'deal' w/ this woman (@least until 11 year old becomes a full-fledged adult).

Is the anger directed @ you or just hubby?

I'm not really sure I'd be about to give you any good advice, unless I knew more about the circumstances involved.

Was he still married when you got together? Is there a history of infidelity? Is she feeling hurt and wounded right now? How recent is their break up?

Could it be that things are still fresh and she's acting out, in emotional pain & a sense of betrayal?

This is one of the many problems created by I have heard being termed "serial monogamy".

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