If you really knew me.... PART 2

Jackie - posted on 11/29/2010 ( 22 moms have responded )

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Finish the sentence.

oh oh oh me first. ME FIRST!

you would know that even though I don't have alot of friends, it's by choice. I'm smart but don't really have to many outlets. I live vicariously through my daughter (when it comes to toys and such. I love Disney and now I have an excuse:P) I'm sure I can think of more interesting things so I'll come back later.

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Kate CP - posted on 11/29/2010

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If you really knew me...
You'd know how much I secretly want to be a successful and famous singer.
You'd know how much I secretly doubt my parenting abilities.
You'd know how big of a crush I have on Robson Green. God...those eyes!

Caitlin - posted on 11/29/2010

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you would know I have no friends because I don't really trust most women, because I find most are way too fake
you would know that sometimes I lie in bed at night and wish I never was, but then look over at my baby sleeping and know it was all worth it
you would know that I am stubborn as an ox
you would know that I feel horibly guilty thinking my second kid is cuter than my first (and never say it out loud of course)

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If you really knew me.....

You'd know that I am a solitary human being and prefer it that way. I don't care for crowded social situations and always feel a little awkward (even among friends sometimes).

You would know that although being a mother has made me the happiest I've ever been, it's also made me the saddest I've ever been.

You'd know that I'm trying my hardest to like NY but in my heart of hearts I wanna go back home to Florida.

You would know that I don't like liver, okrah, or brussel sprouts. I'm totally closed minded about those things and there is no way you can fix them that I will eat them so don't even try lol Although, I did eat a tiny taste of my best friend's mom's brussel sprouts last year and told her I liked them even though I didn't lol

You'd know that I can't stand the color yellow. Besides the fact that I look horrid wearing it, it's just too damn happy a color for my liking lol

You would know that I am full of stupid human tricks. I roll my tongue, am double jointed and can juggle tennis balls like nobody's business. Not all at the same time lol

This is fun :)

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Kayle - posted on 11/30/2010

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If you really knew me you woud know....
...I'm can be very insecure.
...I fee sociay awkward most of the time unless I'm deaing with children. Even here on COM I feel awkward.
...I'm very opinionated. Sometimes it's a flaw.
...I will always stand up for my self. I very rarely back down. (Sometimes even when I know I'm in the wrong)
...That I am terrified of snakes. If I see a snake in real life, tv, pictures...I have nightmares for a week usually waking up crying.
...That I no longer have any contact with my dads side of the family. For the simple fact that they blame me for my fathers alcoholism when I've tried every thing to help him. They upset me everytime I see them so I just don't see them anymore.
...That I sometimes feel really bad about not going to see my dads family or having anything to do with him because of Kamden (son). But I also feel that Kamden deserves to have a happy mommy.
...My fiance is my best friend. You will rarely see me with out him.
...that even though me and my fiance are best friends we fight a lot. But never go to bed mad.
...that I have really bad anxiety, which is only getting worse. The more we find out about Kamden's diagnosis the worse it gets. My mind does not stop at all, ever. I have to take meds to sleep at night and sometimes to get through the day.

I'm sure I could go on but I'll stop there.

Hannah - posted on 11/30/2010

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Shontae- this is a girl who loves horror movies too, especially Night of the Living Dead!

Shontae - posted on 11/30/2010

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...you would know that I'm very sensitive, even though everyone thinks I'm a hard@ss.
...that I'd give my last to a complete stranger if it was really needed.
...that I am something of a geek.
...that I'm afraid of the movie "Troll" lol *blush*
...that I love to drive and used to want to be a truck driver with my father...
...I am THE BIGGEST daddy's girl ever! Sometimes find myself a lil jealous of the attention my three daughters get when we visit my parents lol shame on me, I know lol
...that I love my husband more than life itself and would lay down my life to save his.
...that i LOOOOOOVE horror movies (well the good classic ones)

~Jennifer - posted on 11/30/2010

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.....you'd know that I don't take shit from anyone and I'm the first person to tell someone to go fuck themselves.

......you'd know that I'm very protective of my family and friends - I will stand behind them - even if they're wrong- and deal with them myself at a later time.

......you'd know not to ask the question if you didn't really want an honest answer, and you'd know that I expect full honesty in return (or see #1 ^).

.....you'd know that if I get a little time to myself, I'm reading a book.

....you'd know that I'm very generous and always there to help if you need it.

....you'd know that I'm an excellent cook (and bartender - which makes for some kick-ass parties at my house)

.....you'd know that it's not a good idea to piss me off.



=)

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If you really knew me...you would know that I'm actually a pretty selfish person. I give a lot of time and money to various charities, so most people thing I'm very generous, but the truth is, I only do it because it make me feel good and not so much because it helps people.

If you really knew me...you would know that I have lived with Anorexia for the past 23 years and know that I will never be "cured."

Pretty much everything else about me people would know whether they "really know" me or not. :)

Jackie - posted on 11/30/2010

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OMG Amanda WORMS!!! I HATE WORMS! Any kind. Earth worms, inch worms but most of all PARASITIC worms. OMFG just the thought makes my skin crawl :x. But if you really knew me, you'd know that too. lol

Amanda - posted on 11/30/2010

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if you really knew me.....
you would know that i've never been afraid of anything (except worms) but now that i am a mom i am so afraid of something happening to my babies!
i would love to live out in the middle of nowhere on a farm with horses..... but i'd also love to live in the city
i love to run
i love hanging out with my babies more than with adults most of the time
i've always been too nice and because of that i was always the "fall guy" in a group of friends so i don't have any longtime friends (and i am soooo ok with that)

Sarah - posted on 11/30/2010

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If you really knew me.........
you would know that I don't have a clue what I'm doing most of the time!!!!

Jackie - posted on 11/30/2010

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OK I have more :)

If you really knew me....
you would know that I hate mushrooms! You would know that I have plenty of regrets and yes I do have regrets that I would go back and change in a hot minute.

You would know that I feel like a doormat sometimes but secretly, it almost feels like it gives me purpose.

I can't say no to save my freaking life.

The biggest of them all is, I love my mom to death but I AM TERRIFIED that I'm going to be like her. Not because she's a bad person because she would give her shirt off her back but she has no backbone, no will power, and lets people walk all over her and let them back for more. She was also my friend more than a parent and I'm terrified that I'll be like that with my daughter. I hope not

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If you really knew me...

you would know that I usually speak my mind because I just can't help it.
you would know that I will always try to help anyone I can even if it means I go without.
you would know that life has made me strong but it has also made me numb.
but most of all you would know that my kids are my life.

Tah - posted on 11/29/2010

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If you really knew me you would know that i am also a loner.



If you really knew me you'd know that the people i consider my friends are takers and never have time for me when i want to talk or need help



If you really knew me you would know that i come on here to talk about things that even my most educated friends don't talk about because even a Phd doesn't mean you have opened your mind to all the world has to offer.



If you really knew me you'd know that i don't mince words with friends and family because it does them no favors.



If you really knew me you'd know i am the most giving, caring, and loving person to my family and those who love me back.



If you really knew me you'd know sometimes i wonder what my life would be like or where i would be if i didn't have a baby at 16 and another at 21.



If you really knew me, you'd know my husband is my best friend and we are so in love, but i won't take my name off the truck to avoid Virginia taxes just in case he loses his mind one day and tries to take my vehicle like wives i've seen around here...lol



If you really knew me you'd know my husband wants me to stay home again but i don't want to because i have been raising children since 16 and though i love them, i NEED something for me..and that's being able to help people who need it or have been forgotten by their family and friends...

Jodi - posted on 11/29/2010

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...you would know that I have a serious bad-ass inside that has only managed to get me in trouble and so stays locked up tight! You would also know that I am tongue tied and can't lick an ice cream cone...and this is why I never eat at DQ!!! You would also know that I am a COMPLETE push-over when it comes to friends and family making requests and am almost always "up to here" with projects, errands, requests and favors that I never seem to get around to my own things! I need to learn to say no! ;)

Hannah - posted on 11/29/2010

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If you really knew me...

you would know that I am very emotional.
you would know that I am also very outgoing
you would know that I am often disappointed by some of the choices I have made in life
you would also know that I wouldn't trade the choices for anything, as I know they got me where I am now
You would know that I am silly but feel stiphened by my husband and his lack of humor at times
You would know that I wouldn't trade him for the world because he balances me out
You would know that my kids have completed my life

Sharon - posted on 11/29/2010

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If you really knew me....

.... you'd know that I am one of the most generous people you'll ever meet.

i'm the first one to find an excuse for an employee who hasn't shown up or called in, or suggest a baby shower for a employee, or take special notice of a handicapped shopper at our store.

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