Is it just me or do women want sex more than men?

Angie - posted on 10/05/2010 ( 15 moms have responded )

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Don't judge but I am always up for sex. As I get older and meet more people I've noticed that men are not the sex monsters they are made up to be. Most of the couples my husband and I are friends with all say the same thing "Women want more sex". I know I'm not the only one but I want to know what you think.

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Stifler's - posted on 10/05/2010

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I agree although it depends on the individual. And that the women who deny men sex, it's not that they don't feel like sex it's that they want GOOD sex and not 3 minute unfulfilling sex.

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Angie - posted on 10/06/2010

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According to my mother, I know its gross talking to your mom about these things but I come from an open family where the only taboo is your weight. Anywho back to what I was saying my mom says that the women in her family have a high sex drive.

Tara - posted on 10/06/2010

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For us it entirely depends on what life stage we're at. Right now neither of us care too much about how often we have sex, quality is always better than quantity when it comes to sex. But there are times when I'm not nursing that my sex drive is equal to or greater than his. And he has a very active drive for a 40 year old. (think 19 year old boy) lol
But I know what you mean, most friends I know, it's the woman who wants to get down and dirty more often than the men.

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I think it entirely depends on the man and woman involved - some people have a high sex drive, others have a lower sex drive.

Sara - posted on 10/06/2010

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I would have to give you a "Negatory" on that one. My husband wants sex way more than I do.

Laressa - posted on 10/06/2010

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I agree. I think it might be in part to women's ever changing hormones. I at least can get pretty horny depending on the time of month or where I'm at in pregnancy.

Becky - posted on 10/06/2010

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Well, it's not me! My sex drive seems to have gone on vacation since I had kids!

Charlie - posted on 10/05/2010

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I agree , i am certainly the one who is up for it more so but like Emma said it is up to the individual .

Jodi - posted on 10/05/2010

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Oh, and I will also add, the sex is better because men seem to have MUCH more self control as they get older.......

Jodi - posted on 10/05/2010

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I think that as men get older, they are much less like the lecherous sterotype. I am 41 and I find I want sex a lot more than I used to, because I enjoy it more than when I was younger, probably for a variety of reasons. My husband is 45, and more often than not, it has to be me who initiates sex. Admittedly he was just diagnosed with diabetes this year, and that has had some effect on him, but in general, I do think men's brains do actually move upward as they get older :P

Serena - posted on 10/05/2010

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I heard that too. I think it has to be in part due to experience, we learn what works and what doesn't and just even the experience of climax, whereas men start out with that function...I don't know about anyone else but I am more comfortable with my body now than when I was 18.

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