Life is short......cheat on your husband!

Morgan - posted on 07/26/2010 ( 13 moms have responded )

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have any of you seen the infomercials (sp) for these dating sites for married people? I saw it for the first time and was shocked, why on earth would anyone think that this is ok?
how do you feel about these sites?
heres one of the sites I saw an add for, her motto is "life is short, have an affiar"

www.ashleymadison.com

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Katherine - posted on 07/27/2010

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I have never seen those. Wow what has happened to the integrity of marriage? Or anything for that matter.
No one seems to take marriage as a sacred vow anymore. It's just a piece of paper to them.
I disagree, if you are that unhappy in your marriage, get a divorce!!!

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I think that cheating is the easy way out a working out your problems. If you don't want to work on your marriage or it simply can't be fixed just leave your partner before sleeping with someone else.

I agree with Jenny, play together if you want to stay together. If not it always turns out to be an ugly mess.

Tania - posted on 07/27/2010

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Some people cheat....they will do it with or without a web site.
My view is if you think your relationship has come to the point of straying then leave or have the balls to talk to your partner about your feelings.
If you have an open marriage with or without kids......well have fun and be safe.

LaCi - posted on 07/27/2010

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I'd also like to add, I think the guy who started ashley madison is a flippin' genius. Wish I'd have though of it.

Emma - posted on 07/27/2010

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Well there is an idiot born every second and these sites are just cashing in on that fact.
lawyers and privet eyes ect have been cashing in on this form of stupidity for ages so it was only really a matter of time before a dot com cashed in to....LOL

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I know someone who met her new guy on a site geared toward women in relationships. She left her long-time boyfriend and their child for this guy (he lived across the country) without a word. The guy found out by looking at the webpage history on his computer. It's sad for the man left and their child, but she's not the best person either, so no one was really suprised when it happened... Oh, and now she and the guy (the one she left her family for) are getting a divorce - I love karma...

I still think it's horrible, but I have to agree with Laura. The ads aren't going to change anyone's behavior. They might give those on the edge the final push, but they're not going to make a happily married man (or woman) have an affair. If someone is going to have an affair, they are going to do it with or without the website.

I just laugh at the commercials... I think they're sad and funny...

Isobel - posted on 07/26/2010

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I don't think the ads are going to change anybody's behaviour, they are funny, and the services actually serve a purpose...at least the cheaters are cheating with each other and leaving the nice single girls who are looking for a serious relationship alone.

Amie - posted on 07/26/2010

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It always comes back to bite you in the ass. Doesn't have to be in the near future.

My husband and I know a couple who are in shambles because he cheated 13 years ago and his wife just found out.

/:) Not worth it. If you can't commit to one person, don't get married. It makes the separation process that much easier. No one needs to cheat and if you honestly love someone 'the itch' will pass. We all go through funks in our relationships, we all don't turn to sleeping with someone else! If there's a problem in the sex life, rectify it, don't go messing around with someone else and potentially ruin everything. Weak.

This has nothing to do with "open" relationships either. Though I can't wrap my mind around those relationship types either. What's the point? I don't get it.

Caitlin - posted on 07/26/2010

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It doesn't surprise me these days.. Horrible thing.. If you are married and even worse, if you have kids, you shouldn't be taking these things so lightly, because it's the kids that suffer in the end.

Jenny - posted on 07/26/2010

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If you feel the itch, just have a lady over and cheat WITH your husband. Win-win.

Meghan - posted on 07/26/2010

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HAHA!! Unbelievable!
I totally DISAGREE with cheating...ESP when you are married and ESP when there are kids envolved- Freaking grow a pair and end it! If life is so short, than troll aroound and don't make a commitment to anyone else and bring children into the world!

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