My girls wants abikini and she is just 14

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Nancy - posted on 06/16/2017

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I don't think it's too young. I was wearing a bikini when I was a pre-teen even though I wasn't even developed enough to fill one out! But if YOU think it's too revealing, that's your choice. You're the mom. There are plenty of super cute one piece suits these days that are just as trendy as two pieces!

Summer - posted on 05/30/2018

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Hello

I think it depends on the reason she wants one. Is it to fit in with other girls? Is it for a boy? Is it to show off her body? I would first find out the reason behind her desire to wear one.

I do not find this odd, and would be OK with it were it my daughter, for the right reasons. Most girls want to start wearing a bikini these days around age 12...or usually once they hit puberty. I wore my first bikini when I was 12.

We start most of our daughters out in a bikini when young...then eventually transition them to a swimsuit, then back to a bikini at some point.

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Hannah - posted on 06/30/2017

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I think it's totally okay for her to have a bikini. You two should talk about what kinds are okay. My two oldest girls have lovely two piece suits they got from the store where they get their swim team stuff. They're really beautiful and not just dental floss. They can run and play in them all day and they're not constantly pulling it out of a crack. Lol

Grace - posted on 06/19/2017

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I don't think it's too young either, but of course it's your choice. Try taking her to the mall or anywhere that sells swimwear and let her look through the cute one pieces. If she doesn't like any of them, then you need to make the decision yourself.

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Summer - posted on 07/17/2019

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For all those that responded that you were a bikini when young...when did you first start wearing a thong? Were you permitted to or did you have to keep it a secret from your mother? what happened when she eventually found out? how did she find out?

Rachael - posted on 02/17/2019

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In my opinion it depends on how developed she is. When we go swimming in our pool our children still go naked. If we go to our cottage which is on a private beach my daughter will wear a bikini bottom, but she hasn't starting developing yet.

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