my partner mother 70 birthday in december my parnter said we should ask his xwife i was so upset his chilren r adults why would he do that.

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Jodi - posted on 11/28/2012

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We invited my husband's exes (2 of them) to his father's 80th, because they have continued a relationship with them over the years for the sake of the kids. When you marry someone with a history, previous marriages, children, etc, it can be very complicated. You have to be mature enough to accept that just because they divorced, doesn't mean they don't have some sort of relationship, or that other people don't have a relationship with the ex. I don't believe in making people choose sides, because the only people it hurts is the children.....even if the children are adults (which my step-daughter now is).



So my advice is to get over it. There is nothing to be jealous about - he chose you, remember?

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This is why I push my son so much in English class. Clarity in writing is so essential. As you can see, neither of the first 2 respondents were able to offer aid as we cannot read your posting.

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