Relationship after baby gone bad?

Martyna - posted on 01/17/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




okay so I don't know what to do :( I had my baby boy nearly 3 months ago and he is the best thing that ever happened to me although not planned. since Filip was born my boyfriend and I have just fallen apart, we fight ALL THE TIME, I mean we fought before but never as much and never over EVERYTHING, also my boyfriend wants me to have sex with him and I just don't want to at all, I was never really much of a sex person to start but I did want it sometime before the baby, when I was pregnant we couldn't have sex because I was in too much pain and since the baby was born we've done it once but it wasn't all that great to be honest. We are both only turning 20 this year and I just think we have a totally different view on life and we have definitely fell apart. I know that I would be okay without him, we love eachother but we just can't be together why is this?? One minute I think I want to be with him and the next I hate his guts it really confusing. Do i need prefessional help??


S. - posted on 01/18/2013




You might benefit from some couple counselling, babies create a great strain in even the strongest relationships I think for some it is very easy to fall into mum and dad role and forget about the couple role but the couple part is the most important and the foundations of any family.

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