socks on or off???

Sneaky - posted on 05/04/2012 ( 29 moms have responded )




Yes, this is seriously the only question I have for debate at the moment: Do you think it is okay to have sex with your socks on??

My hubby will NOT allow it - but personally I want my feet to be WARM while we are fooling around!!!


Jocelyn - posted on 05/08/2012




No socks!!! Thigh high stockings or shoes are allowed, but never just regular socks :P

Mrs. - posted on 05/05/2012




Looking like low grade porn is exactly what some men like....and some women too.

Mrs. - posted on 05/04/2012




Yes, in fact, it is very odd in porn (not that it is the standard but still..) for someone to not still have on one piece of clothing. Take a look, there is usually always a sock, a garter, panties at the ankles...something. It reminds the viewer of that exciting moment when the clothing came off.

Plus, I live in Canada and my feet get cold. Get some sexy socks that he likes. Like some warm stockings that are a bit lacey or something.

Seriously, if a man let's socks get in the way of getting some...he needs a bit of a reality check...he is, after all, getting some.

I personally like the thigh high ones from American Apparel...they look like school girl stockings and are actually quite hot.

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actually studies show that women with warm feet get more pleasure out of sex (warm feet = higher comfort levels = easier to orgasm). your husband is doing you a terrible disservice.

i don't wear socks to bed but then again i don't have sex much either. however, when we first got together, i wore socks, and hubby always thought that was weird and pointed it out and made me uncomfortable anyway. maybe that's why we don't have sex anymore.

eta: we used to have a great sex life before we got married and had kids. sad that we're just another statistic now.


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Stifler's - posted on 05/08/2012




I look ridiculous in thigh high stockings. I don't think we have ever actually had sex with socks on besides the day I came home from exam week at 4am from the train and he picked me up in work clothes ready to go to work and we did it on the pool table because there was no time for taking clothes off and going back to bed.

Sally - posted on 05/08/2012




Unless its a sneaky quicky ,where its drop your knickers bend over and get on with it. No socks, id piss myself laughing if he tried to make love to me with nothing on but his socks. I don't wear sock oftens and never in bed i get to hot. Stockings are a different but thats prob

ETA. Who every mention pantyhose im with you yuck . All they do is make your toes curl. Lmao

Stifler's - posted on 05/07/2012




yes who can be bothered to take socks off just pull down my pants.

Sneaky - posted on 05/06/2012




ROFL! No I don't get punished if I leave my socks on.....though I might suggest that next time!!!! Must go and search for sexy socks now :o) Thanks ladies!

Janice - posted on 05/06/2012




Typically socks off. But if I'm really cold they might stay on till things heat up ;)

Rebecca3 -Those socks in your link are pretty awesome! Kinda like the thigh highs you can connect to certain lingerie but thicker. might have to get some for next winter :)

Corinne - posted on 05/06/2012




Socks off! But the heating had better be on cause I am cold blooded. Have got myself some 'sexy' black, over-knee socks, just haven't tried them out yet......

Chelsey - posted on 05/05/2012




Not much of a sock person to begin with so I wouldn't be wearing them in bed anyways. The hubby runs warm so he won't be wearing any either. Just had a baby in February and I'm nursing so I have been wearing a bra at all times. Hubby doesn't like that too much but we both don't want to get milk everywhere because that definitely isn't sexy in both our opinions LOL

MeMe - Raises Her Hand (-_-) (Mommy Of A Toddler And Teen) - posted on 05/05/2012




Sheesh Rebecca, the socks in those links would do more than keep your feet warm! heheehee...

You know, many men like the look and excitment of the knee high fuck me boots, so I think they would like the knee high (or ass high, like the ones in the link) socks, too. Give em' a try Sneaky Spider, you never know. You'd definitely have warm feet. ;)

Toni - posted on 05/05/2012




NO! Socks must be off.
If my husband tried being all sexy with nothing but socks on I would fall over laughing!
It is difficult trying to get in the mood when one looks hilarious.
Try imagining your hubby wearing a fake moustache and a fake big nose while talking dirty

**Jackie** - posted on 05/04/2012




I never ever wear fact IF I want to wear them, I have to wear my husband's because I don't think I own a pair other than Christmas ones (you leave my Christmas socks alone!). As far as leaving them on? I've left all my clothes on for sex before (skirt), who cares. When it's time, it's time...and sometimes you only have a few minutes lol

Amy - posted on 05/04/2012




Always on because I'm always cold, I get mad if he tries to take them off, I think he's just come to accept it!

Elfrieda - posted on 05/04/2012




Well, that made me laugh.

I will confess that I have left socks on before, but I did feel silly about it and my husband did tease me. :) (but it was really cold, what was I supposed to do?)

America3437 - posted on 05/04/2012




WTF...Sexy got to be kidding...since when are socks sexy!

MeMe - Raises Her Hand (-_-) (Mommy Of A Toddler And Teen) - posted on 05/04/2012




I am like Jodi. I get way to hot if I wear socks. I rarely, ever, wear socks.

However, if I happen to have some on and it is a spur of the moment romp, my husband would not mind. He would be soooo happy to be getting it, the last thing he cares about is what I am wearing, including socks. Now if he had socks on and it was not random, I would probably ask him why but I could careless really, I'm not touching his feet. ;)

I can't see why it matters but I do agree with Karla, perhaps some sexy ones would be more appealing for your husband?

Karla - posted on 05/04/2012




Maybe if you got some sexy socks he would let you wear them.

Funny wording though, he "will not allow it," do you get punished if you refuse? ;-)

Had to ask.

Jodi - posted on 05/04/2012




My feet are always too warm for socks to begin with. I put socks on and I start roasting! lol So, for me personally, I wouldn't wear socks during sex. My husband has on occasiona and I HATE it...but I despise the feel of cotton being rubbed against my skin. (I should say, wearing clothing and having it rub is one thing, having it forcefully rubbed, as in someone slides their foot up your leg is what drives me bonkers or even rubbing cotton between my fingers *eeek!*)

I think it's "ok", but I don't like it on myself or my hubby. So for's a double no...for what works!

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