To tell my husband that I masturbate with a dildo or not?

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I feel bad about masturbating with a life-like dildo when my husband doesn't know... Should I tell him? I don't want him to get self-conscious or angry that i wasn't asking him to please me, but I also need more pleasure, even though he pleases me almost daily! Any other mom's been in the same boat or have advice?

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Kerry-ann - posted on 05/10/2014

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Well if his is smaller then he will think that and if he's understanding then he won't mind, just be nice about it, explain to him why u have one, but while explaining try to turn him on, it'll take his mind off the whole matter, let him see u do your stuff, don't over do it though! Good luck!

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Oliver - posted on 02/04/2015

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Amen sister. My husbands black but wont go near me with that schlong of his. so i just use a cucumber.

Jackie - posted on 09/06/2014

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I would tell him, then show him, then ask him to use it on you as a kind of foreplay. lol but thats just me...

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 05/23/2014

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Oh for crying out loud. Quit trolling. Be honest with your spouse. If you cannot be honest, then you're doing something illegal, immoral, or both.

Keishanecole - posted on 05/15/2014

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yes tell him because you dont want to be having sex and he thinks ur pu**y feels a little different

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 05/12/2014

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If you cannot be honest with your spouse, how do you expect him to be honest with you?

You're creating trust issues if you cannot be open and honest in a marriage.

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I think I will... What about if it is a little bigger than his penis? Do you think it would make him feel less of a man or that I prefer bigger?

Kerry-ann - posted on 05/09/2014

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Yes you two should definitely have a discussion about it, invite him in on the action girl!

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