What kind of judge makes this ruling?

Payola - posted on 04/10/2012 ( 11 moms have responded )

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So here is a judge, A JUDGE, an expert in the law, making family decisions regarding a child and it's bio father (may as well call him sperm donor at this point).

A "narcissistic personality disorder" judge?



See this link below for the short article



http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2012-...



What do you all think now?

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Jodi - posted on 04/10/2012

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You didn't read that article properly, did you?



" learning the truth will be the "most traumatic experience for (my son) so far in his life" and worried that he would be "very angry and hurt" toward her and the boy's relationship with her husband might also suffer."



See that bit? That's the bit everyone has been warning you about. He won't be any less angry at her when he finds out at 18 either.



"may as well call him sperm donor at this point"



No, a sperm donor wouldn't want to have any contact with his child. Your child has a biological father who loves her and a mother who merely wants to control her.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 04/10/2012

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Listen, much like you are making this whole situation about YOU and NOT your DAUGHTER, you are making this site about YOU also. This is a debating forum. Take advantage of that. We have all heard your story, and do not agree with you. Move on, or I am going to start locking this thread, and all your future threads. Get my point??

~♥Little Miss - posted on 04/10/2012

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It doesn't mean it was right. I could pull up so many court cases decided by a judge that were wrong WRONG WRONG!

Jodi - posted on 04/10/2012

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No, I'm not missing the point at all. The most important part is that the child will be traumatized and very angry and hurt at his mother. It isn't about anyone else except the child.

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 04/10/2012

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****LOCKING THREAD****



This is the 3rd thread on this topic that keeps getting locked due to thump violations. I am locking this one also, and all future threads pertaining to this subject and particular people involved. MOVE ON.



DM MoD ~Little Miss~

Payola - posted on 04/10/2012

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You are all missing the most important part here --- a JUDGE made this decision. Why?

Johnny - posted on 04/10/2012

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I'm with Dove, I'm finding this whole ridiculous thing rather pleasant. It's nice to all agree once in a while.



I AM starting to wonder though if this is just one of those sociological experiments where they test to see what the outlier of group behavior is and then push the envelope...

~♥Little Miss - posted on 04/10/2012

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No one agrees with you no matter how you spin it. YOU. ARE. WRONG.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 04/10/2012

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I think it is a really shitty thing to do to a kid. PERIOD. You slept with a guy, without a condom, decided to have his baby, broke off a long distance relationship (that you knew about when having sex without protection), all this while cheating on your husband, went beck to your husband, and are now trying to get the bio father out of your kids life. Mother of the year award should be headed your way.

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