Will you please get Circumcised?

Katherine - posted on 01/04/2011 ( 157 moms have responded )

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You're in love with a man, you want to marry him. There's only one problem: He hasn't been circumcised. This grosses you out and you want him to get cirqued, you just don't know how to tell him.
Is this selfish?

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 01/05/2011

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Shauna, you saying that uncircumsised is disgusting...that is a direct insult to anyone that is not circumsised. My husband is not disgusting, and my 4yr 7mo son is not disgusting. Just becouse you are decidedly uneducated about it, and refuse to see someone elses perspective, you should not make a judgement on a huge mass of people becouse of one experience that you may have had. The point is, fine you had your kid circumsised. Absoluetely it was your choice as a parent to have it done....our point is that you took a right away from him. He will never know if that is what decision he WOULD have made as an adult..you took away the chance.

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seriously...my boyfriends penis if beautiful, he has his foreskin. saying its disgusting is offensive. Why not say, i prefer circumcised instead of insulting someones penis.

LaCi - posted on 01/05/2011

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Shauna, I also live in the midwest and know several people who wish they were NOT circumcised. Don't use your location as an excuse, because it isn't one. A lack of education is what has lead people to be circumcised to begin with, and the idea that because the majority of people here have been unnaturally hacked at the NATURAL intact penis is gross, ugly, dirty, or fucked up looking only facilitates the ignorance and continuation of mutilation.

You absolutely have the right to your personal preference, and any adult male who chooses to hack off his bits has that right too, even if it's because of something so ridiculous as "my shallow, ignorant girlfriend thinks it's gross and doesn't want to blow me unless I surgically remove parts of my body"

And guys who ARE circumcised can STILL tear their cocks. It's completely irrelevant.

LaCi - posted on 01/05/2011

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" Its a personal choice. "

YES. exactly. A PERSONAL choice. and in the case of your children: It's not YOUR penis. YOU aren't having sex with it. it isn't YOUR choice.

LaCi - posted on 01/05/2011

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Apparently you STILL haven't put forth any effort in reading comprehension.



Let me spell it all out for you so you MIGHT, just might, understand it.



Docking is the act of two males putting their cocks inside each others foreskin and sliding the foreskin back and forth over the cocks until they reach a fantastic fucking orgasm. I said I hope your son isn't gay because, without his foreskin, instead of having the typical 3 methods of sex we all like to have available to us, or most of us at least, he only has two and will completely miss out on this one, unless he finds another man with a large amount of excess foreskin in which case he *may* be able to attempt some form of docking.

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LaCi - posted on 01/05/2011

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Nothing I have said recently has been, or has been intended as an insult. These are general comments on sex and hypothetical questions.

LaCi - posted on 01/05/2011

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How much would you like it if your SO could never penetrate you vaginally?

Shauna - posted on 01/05/2011

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if my sons gay im sure driving his cock into another mans asshole will do just fine. but thanks for telling me over and over.

LaCi - posted on 01/05/2011

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Well, then you SHOULD understand what I actually said was not "I hope your son isn't a faggot because you circumcised him" Which is what YOU are implying I said when I am ACTUALLY saying, I hope your son's adult sex life doesn't suffer because YOU have a certain preference in cocks.

LaCi - posted on 01/05/2011

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And I'm going to post it again, so maybe the repetition will finally drive this into that skull.



Let me spell it all out for you so you MIGHT, just might, understand it.



Docking is the act of two males putting their cocks inside each others foreskin and sliding the foreskin back and forth over the cocks until they reach a fantastic fucking orgasm. I said I hope your son isn't gay because, without his foreskin, instead of having the typical 3 methods of sex we all like to have available to us, or most of us at least, he only has two and will completely miss out on this one, unless he finds another man with a large amount of excess foreskin in which case he *may* be able to attempt some form of docking.

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Opinions when you are offending a group of people are not acceptable. Its called discrimination.

Shauna - posted on 01/05/2011

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As a mother it IS my decision what to do with my son, while hes under my care. Thats why you need a parents signature to do anything to their body under the age of 18.
It was my decision to have him cirqed. I dont care if its not medicaly needed. End of Story.

Nikkole - posted on 01/05/2011

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Opinions are allowed but there are ways of stating them in ways not to offend others.

Katherine - posted on 01/05/2011

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This is becoming insidious. Why go round and round about it?
There are things I don't like but I tolerate them. We are talking about a human being, not an object. The object is connected to the human, not the other way around.

LaCi - posted on 01/05/2011

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Well if everything is offensive anyway, I should just post what I'm thinking.


But I'll suppress the urge, because this thread most certainly would be shut down. :x


if you really love me, chop off a body part to prove it. Eh, I'm still not convinced. Maybe if you poked out your left eyeball...

Shauna - posted on 01/05/2011

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Look- if anyone thinks its offensive by me saying my opinon which is I THINK ITS DISGUSTING.... then so be it. I guess opinions are not allowed anymore.
To outright say to someone "i hope your son isnt gay" b/c of your choice to cirq him ----Thats an insult.

Nikkole - posted on 01/05/2011

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I dont think anyone has said un cirqued was gross did they they just said there was no medical reasons to have to have it done and that it should be the males decision not the mothers.

Shauna - posted on 01/05/2011

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i can turn around and say you insulted me by saying un cirq is beautiful b/c my child is cirqed .... ------------KINDA LAME.

Nikkole - posted on 01/05/2011

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Very good point :) i think for someone to say uncircumcised males look gross is offensive to those women who husbands are not.

Shauna - posted on 01/05/2011

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B/C i never pointed out names. therefore i never insulted any person in particular. Its my preferance that i dont like it!!!!! The one man i was with that was un cirq I TOLD HIM! we are still friends, and he hates that his parents didnt cirq him. ...... its all in my opinon. As its all in your opinion that you think its beautiful.

Iris - posted on 01/05/2011

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Ok!! Stop the personal attacks. We do not want to lock the thread, but if it keeps on we will have no choice. This is a debating forum. Now get out of the sandbox and debate like grown up women.

Iris DM mod.

Shauna - posted on 01/05/2011

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it looks, like a anteater, a worm, something that could eat you alive.... its disgusting to me. why do you care what my preferance is?

i dont give a shit why you like it!

Shauna - posted on 01/05/2011

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its a matter of preferance, and i prefer uncut men. I dont know how this is blown so out of porportion. To the point where you have to tell me i hope your son isnt gay.

LaCi - posted on 01/05/2011

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Explain WHY an uncut penis is gross. Tell me in great detail.



I don't find vaginas gross at all, but I also don't find anything gross about a natural penis.

Shauna - posted on 01/05/2011

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Do you find your vagina gross?

dont understand the ?

B/C an uncut penis is disgusting to me and a vagina is beautiful to me! ... There are plenty of women i would not go down on if they had something wierd going on like long labia etc... i really dont know what this has to do with anything ... and especially since you said you dont care about my sexuality.

Katherine - posted on 01/05/2011

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Circumcision started out being for religious purposes. It was a rite of passage for young boys.
Then in the 1900's they began doing it to prevent masturbation. It was viewed as "dirty." (the penis)
Now the prominent reason is for looks.
So you see it evolved. It was never meant to BE for looks. It was religious.

LaCi - posted on 01/05/2011

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It still means you are eliminating an entire method of sexual pleasure from your son's life. Just because youre straight doesn't mean you have to have blowjobs, but most people WANT them.



Did I accidentally wander onto the short bus of COM?

Shauna - posted on 01/05/2011

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so why would you bring up i hope your son isnt gay? Makes no sense, and why would you say "its good to know you find that insulting"
Just b/c your gay doesnt mean docking is your only form of pleasure.

LaCi - posted on 01/05/2011

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Wait, actually I do. You'll eat a cunt but you think an uncut penis is gross? WTF?



Please explain WHY an uncut penis is more disgusting than a vagina. I HAVE to hear this.

LaCi - posted on 01/05/2011

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DOCKING is what I'm getting at, and circumcisions impact on male on male sex. An entire method of having sex that requires foreskin. I don't give a fuck about your sexuality. FYI.

LaCi - posted on 01/05/2011

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You obviously missed the comment about docking, which is what that was in reference to. But its great to know you think of a comment regarding gay sex to be insulting.

Shauna - posted on 01/05/2011

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Laci- thanks for the insult. For your Information i wouldnt care if my son turned out gay. And i have PLENTY of gay friends ... OMG they are circumsized IMAGINE THAT.

Shauna - posted on 01/05/2011

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ANd BTW Tara- untill you grow a penis and tell me that sex is only good without your foreskin... that statement is meaningless to me.

Shauna - posted on 01/05/2011

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Im done debating. b/c there is no point. I will continue to circumsize my boys, and nothing anyone has said will change my mind.

Plain and simple i find un cirqed men disgusting.. and so do many men i know.

end of story, i dont see any point further of discussing it?

Tara - posted on 01/05/2011

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sex is good, but not great. They just don't know that.
So they settle for what they know, but really sex could be so much better...
And they would have all their parts still.
Would you allow your daughters genitals to be altered if she were born with all parts as they should be according to the human anatomy at birth?
If not, why not??
What if it were your culture to remove her clitoris, thereby reducing her sexual enjoyment later in life?

LaCi - posted on 01/05/2011

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I wonder if there are any gay men who refuse to date circumcised men. I mean, docking is a form of sex entirely of its own.

Tara - posted on 01/05/2011

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Yeah but nothing is "abnormal" about a foreskin, just as nothing is abnormal about labia etc.
Your point is flawed.
Your culture is north american. Are you Jewish?
Do you have moyle (sp?) perform circ for you?

Shauna - posted on 01/05/2011

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well, being that im not a man, and neither are any of you i just dont think any of us will ever know for sure if their is a differance.
All men i have ran into is just fine with their cocks cut. And would rather look a certain way.... i also havent met a guy that has been cut that says sex doesnt feel good... so IMO- its not as big as a deal that you are all making it out to be.

Shauna - posted on 01/05/2011

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I know an uncut cock looks the same when its hard. whats your point?

You can continue to see it as mutilating but thats your opinion.

IF my daughter had something abnormal with her labia---- ID GET IT FIXED!!!!!

where i come from you circumsize your boys... plain and simple.... if in your culture you dont do it ... OK ... but i do.

Tara - posted on 01/05/2011

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@Shauna,
Well of course they are, they don't know what they're missing.
If they could have all the sensation back that was stolen from them, they would. If they knew how much better it felt to have a foreskin protecting their cock, they would.
Guys who are cut as adults for medical reasons almost always report a loss of penile sensation. So doesn't that say that if they had not been cut, sex would be better? So those that were cut at birth or in the early years, can't really say they prefer being cut because they've never been intact.
Ask people who were cut as adult men, or sexually active teens, they will tell you, sex was better when they had all their parts accounted for.
And if sex is better there are few men that would prefer a "nicer looking" dick to one that makes their toes curl that much more.
:)

Tara - posted on 01/05/2011

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An uncut cock looks the same as a cut one when it's hard.
There is no difference.
When soft, the foreskin does a great job of preserving the sensitive nerves that allow for more intense enjoyment over the desensitized nerves of a cut man's cock.
It's also NORMAL.
Mutilating someone else's body is not ethical, it should always be the choice of the person who owns that body.
Why is it okay to remove a foreskin and not a clitoris or labia? Why do people react so harshly to female mutilation and not to male mutilation?

Shauna - posted on 01/05/2011

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"And guys who ARE circumcised can STILL tear their cocks. It's completely irrelevant."



And another thing- THIS IS WHAT A MAN POSTED ON MY FB ----------- some of you cant get it out of your heads that YES a lot of guys are happy they are circumsized!!!!!

Shauna - posted on 01/05/2011

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i only said i live in midwest, b/c if you look up the damn research it says 80% of men in midwest are circumsized! Its not an "excuse" .... what im saying is MAYBE thats why i dont hear guys saying they wished they were not circumsized. In fact comming to COM is the first time i have EVER heard of someone not circumsizing their boys. I know im the the only "odd duck" that your making me out to be, i have read past posts on COM on circumsizing your LO and over half agree they would do it or that un cut is strange to them.

IF you like the way your un cut man looks, and prefer the look of a cock like that, so fucking be it. For the last time ... its fucking gross IMO.

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