wives and mistresses meet at miner rescue...

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Becky - posted on 10/19/2010

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The wife KNEW he was a womanizer and had an idea of the mistress. Kick his butt to the curb and move on. The best revenge on him is to let the mistress keep him.

When the mine collapsed the Mistress was on her way to tell the wife....

Amie - posted on 10/14/2010

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The only time the benefit goes fully to the wife is if they die underground Tah.
Otherwise it's paid to the employee. So when I'm divorcing his ass, I get a percentage but not all of it.

Nikki - posted on 10/14/2010

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The mistress is just a skank obviously, as if you would go to the site, some people are just stupid. 28 years of marriage, what a prick, my husband wouldn't dare. I would be gone by the time he was out, would have sold everything that was worth anything and destroyed anything that was special to him.

Amie - posted on 10/14/2010

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The benefits, depending on the company (I don't know how it works in Chile) would be phenomenal. It's why the mistresses are coming out of the wood works now.

Get bent, I'd take as much of that as I could too.

Amie - posted on 10/14/2010

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Pfftt... I wouldn't have even have held out as long as the wife did. I would have found the best lawyer and he'd be handed the papers the moment he stepped off the capsule.

Disgusting.

Sharon - posted on 10/14/2010

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yup. I read that they are already fighting over the benefits to the miners. That sort of thing is disgusting to me, so I didn't bother to read much. who gets what benefit etc.

Tah - posted on 10/14/2010

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i agree, and here is my thing...if you are the other woman..know your place...you should have held your vigil in the only room he sees you...the bedroom...not at the site. She wanted the wife to know so she could jumpstart all the things that he promised her but has no intention of giving her...and thats why most of them make themselves known, thats what they wanted in the first place..

Sharon - posted on 10/14/2010

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Honestly - I admire the wife who said "fu" and stayed home. that is class.

Tah - posted on 10/14/2010

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it reminds me of military homecomings..it has been known for the mistress to show up when the husband gets home from deployment and there have been some fun times to say the least....but this was just very bold. I can see where you say that mistress is treated by dirt as the wife even refused to say her name, that right there told me how they probably treat the other woman, and good for them...

Rosie - posted on 10/14/2010

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how many of these miners were cheating?? 5?? holy shit. i think it would be heartbreaking for me to sya the least, and dismemberment for him....hehe! i don't know what i'd do, what a crappy situation for all.

Sharon - posted on 10/14/2010

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Its what we see here. Hispanic men here, think nothing of having casual flings or maintaining a mistress in addition to the wife & kids. But if the woman does it, all hell breaks loose.

Is it our little group (in the larger scheme of the nation?) or is it a cultural thing? It doesn't seem to me that american men, german men, english - seem to do this on the scale hispanics do. Don't misunderstand. ALL ethnicities do this. Men & Women.

It just seems to me that the culture here is more casual about it. Between the catholicism and mexican laws, there is no divorce. So the woman is trapped with very few options.

If it were me? I'd have been standing next to that hole and when he came up I'd have shoved him back down. Kidding sort of. I know the capsule would be in the way but even if I shoved his cheating ass back into the capsule, I think the world would know how i felt about his actions.

My second option would be to go home and start shredding everything he treasured and calling a good divorce lawyer.

5 out of 60 made themselves KNOWN cheaters, how many more of them had mistresses with a bit more class (utterly classless being mistresses, but maybe you see what I'm getting at) and didn't present themselves at what was clearly a family situation.

OH the other funny thing - women known to be mistresses - get treated like dirt by everyone. So, HERE, making themselves known, is like the kiss of death for any sort of future with men of decency or appearing decency.

Anyone else live in a mining border town?

Pam - posted on 10/14/2010

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That must have been just awful to find out like that, however at least she found out! No second chances for cheating. I don't know about all the details, but did the mistress know that he was married or was she in the dark too?? If she knew, WOW, I think that's a new low showing up like that and kissing him the way she was on live tv.

Tah - posted on 10/14/2010

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no..you are just the right amount of bad, in what universe did he think it was okay to ask both of them to meet him there the level of insensitivity and disrespect is just too high to stomach

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Drama at the rescue site, who would of thought..thats crazy.Its also sad and i would be so let down and heartbroken.All those days of worrying sick of thinking you might never see the one you love again and then this hits..i would be very ticked off and i agree with you Tah but i would feel like pushing em back down the hole lol.Thats terrible im to bad.lol

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wow what a way to find out...I would just walk away I think and see him in court next. I am all for working out issues in a relationship but cheating... I don't think I could live with.

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