would you give this doll to a little girl ?

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Charlie - posted on 03/31/2011

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Lady jane said : I definitely would not buy this doll. A child simply can not actually breastfeed a baby. They can bottle feed them, change their diapers, but they can't physically breastfeed.



and your point is ?? Children cannot physically be puppy dogs or fly like a super hero or drive trucks ......it is called imagination , children use it ALL THE TIME , in fact it is a major part of child development , imagination is something a lot of adults have seemed to have lost touch with and are set in crushing it in children .



The main reasoning i see here against it is people thinking it is age innapropriate or somehow sexual or will lead to thinking about a sexual act but in reality you are projecting your own adult ideas onto children .

As for wondering where children come from Im sorry but that is a fact of life one , the entire class (4-5year olds) discussed this when I was pregnant and teaching , they came out with some amazing ideas like "daddy plants a little seed in mummy's belly button " and " when mummy and daddy love each other the love makes magic and a baby comes out "

one boy even said " it's when the sperm meets the mummies egg "





Children aren't going to become deviants because they are curious or educated although the same can't be said for children who are forced to supress their natural curiosity .

Johnny - posted on 04/01/2011

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I have to say, I find it rather weird that some of the opposition to this doll seems based on the idea that little girls can't breastfeed so they shouldn't pretend to with a doll. That makes no sense to me. My daughter's favorite game right now is driving. She loves to drive her toy car everywhere, she sits in that thing for a long time talking about her trips and where she's going. Now, she definitely can not even try driving for another 13 1/2 years, but I see no reason why she shouldn't make believe. She's never tried to nurse her doll (she's only got one rag doll - she's not really that into dolls) but if she did, I wouldn't find it any stranger than her pretending to drive. I'm not breastfeeding now, but I nursed her until she was 2, she still remembers, and she sees my friends nursing their babies all the time. Little children like to imitate what adults do, that's how they learn. Breastfeeding a doll is just how they are learning about the ways in which humans nurture their young. I don't buy "specialized" toys either. I don't like those that do too much for the child. But this to me is no weirder than those bottle feeding/pooping dolls.

Amy - posted on 04/01/2011

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tonya made a comment on if this doll is okay lets get one that has to do with sex. was in response to tonya. She said :

"""Now do YOU think there is a difference between a doll showing how to breastfeed and a doll showing how to play with ones privates?Whats the difference????Still a natural bodily function and totally natural right? ""

I think there's a huge difference between nursing and masturbation. YEAH!

Emily - posted on 03/30/2011

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LOL... well... I'm afraid kids will wonder where babies come from whether you are pretending to breastfeed or not. Having a doll at all would trigger that question. Then again, being alive will trigger that question. My sons never pretended to breastfeed anything, nor do they play with dolls... but I get asked all sorts of tough questions, that are getting trickier and trickier to answer. Someone please tell how to explain to 7 and 9 year old boys "how does the sperm get out of the Daddy's penis", because that is the latest conundrum. =O I'm not ready to explain orgasms to them, but "it just comes out" is not being accepted. :P



That being said, there's no way I'd buy the doll. It seems, I don't know... creepy. I like dolls that don't do anything. It leaves more options for the child.

Charlie - posted on 03/30/2011

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Your not answering the question , first of all little girls have been imagining to be mothers since forever .

Second of all breastfeeding is not a sexual act , neither is dressing up in mummys clothes , doing the shopping or rocking a baby to sleep , sorry I fail to see the comparison .

How is it that you believe play breastfeeding like so many children do anyway reguardless of a doll is crossing the line ?

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Christina - posted on 04/01/2011

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I don't see anything wrong with the doll, but I wouldn't buy it because it is too damn noisy. I have a photograph of my daughter when she was 2yrs old "breastfeeding" her doll. She even lifted up her shirt. When children see mommy do it, they do it. Nothing wrong with it.

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My daughter has always pretended to breast feed her dolls. Children play make believe and it's a natural normal part of childhood. They mimick the adults and since I breast fed her and her baby brother this is what she's acustomed to.
Now, a masturbating doll...that's disturbing. I don't get why some people compare bf'ing to sexual acts. It's not sexual! It's feeding your child!

However, I don't think I'd buy the doll bc that is way too myc money for a baby doll in my opinion. And, she can bf her babies liek she already does without the special add ons.

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I feel like this doll is stupid, but I think some of the comparisons on some of these posts are even worse. A doll that masturbates? Really? Wow.....

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gabby does breastfeed her little doll
she also pushes her around in the stroller and rocks her...so sweet.

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and any child can REALLY breast feed when they have children. Most children play parent to the doll..they can`t really have a baby at that age so that goes to show just how crazy dolls are in general....encouraging imagination of what taking care of a baby is like...how dare they.

Tinker1987 - posted on 04/01/2011

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I just think it boils down to the simple fact.any child can really bottle feed a baby.I havent seen any waves like this about any other rag doll.so that goes to show you how crazy this doll really is!!

Jennifer - posted on 04/01/2011

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And again I feel like I have to point out the fact that my boobs do not even slightly resemble a flower and I do not put on a vest with flowers on it for my child to suck on. This is grossly unrealistic...if they want to pretend to breastfeed they don't need a $100 doll to do so. The $10 rag doll will suffice

Jennifer - posted on 04/01/2011

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I think the difference between building a house and breastfeeding is enormous. First of all, if a child has parent that builds things, the parent may allow the child to "help" by handing them tools or cleaning up.So, technically a child could physically participate in building a house. And it's a learned trade..a job. Breastfeeding is something that the child literally will not be physically capable of for many years. And it's not a trade, nor is it really a learned behavior. It's more of a natural thing before formula came along mothers did not have a choice..and they most definitely did not have dolls to "teach" them. They just instinctively knew what to do

LadyJane - posted on 04/01/2011

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Well, actually I did build a house, well, helped build one when I was 5 yrs old. My grandpa's farm. I chopped wood, hammered nails, even helped drag some beams over to him that he needed for the roof. I was all but 5 years old. I helped him. A 5yr old certainly can NOT help her mother breastfeed. There is no way a child can breastfeed until she becomes a mother, period. You have to have just given birth to do that.

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'It's ridiculous for a child to have a doll that does something that they won't be able to do until they are an adult.' Like building a house...

LadyJane - posted on 04/01/2011

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At my house we have building blocks and you should see the "house" my daughter built using these blocks. Or better yet. You should have seen teh one I built with my brothers when I was 7. It won an award for best house model created completely out of Legos. My daughter did in fact watch me breastfeed my son and not once did she want to imitate that. I've had tons of bottle feeding dolls. Actually I still have them, my daughter plays with those. I had a doll called Baby Alive which you would feed with a spoon and her mouth would imitate chewing. There were no sounds, however. Just movements.



My children have the best of imaginations, well my son more than my daughter, but neither of them would pretend to breastfeed a doll. I wouldn't stop them either if they were interested in doing that. So far my 6yr old still has no interest in dolls. just his stuffed animals and I've yet to see him try to breastfeed those.

It is ridiculous for a child to have a doll that does something that they won't be able to do until they're an adult. At least with bottle feeding dolls they can help feed real babies and my daughter has been a huge help when I had her brother. She diapered him, fed him, yes she even burped him when I had the flu and I didn't even have to ask her to help. But she knows you don't breastfeed until you're an adult why would she need a doll that does this. Why would any child? My mom never showed me how to breastfeed, the doctor didn't either. I learned from the pamphlet they supplied me when I went into labor. They also offered me the services of a wet nurse if I needed assistance. So I never had to 'watch' anyone do that, I already knew. Even before I got pregnant, it was taught at our health class in high school.

It may be just a toy to some, but it's a toy that shouldn't be given to little girls before the age of 12.

Tinker1987 - posted on 04/01/2011

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Amy i dont agree with alot of your last post but i do say the topic at hand has been lost in this debate! the doll i think is being used for the wrong reason,as i said i dont care if kids copy mom with a regular doll but to use a battery operated toy that makes those noise and attaches to your childs chest area to me is creepy alot of people want the doll to teach nurturing acts and make breastfeeding friendly.word of mouth can teach your child those acts you dont need a stupid doll for it! why does a child need to be promoted to nurse? at a young age? i think the doll is bad and not for sexual reasons! get your facts straight.

Amy - posted on 04/01/2011

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I think it's funny that this will be about the fourth time I said I wouldn't buy the doll, but that my daughter pretends to nurse hers. I see nothing wrong with her pretending to be a mom. I also don't feel I should hide in a closet to nurse my children to "shield" them from it. I don't feel ashamed of nursing. I have a cover most the time, but hey, sometimes things show. I don't get where someone is saying that I think it's shameful to breastfeed. huh? And no one's being brainwashed. I think that's a load of shit. A child sees something and imitates. End of story. I don't push her dolls to her and tell her what to do. The absurdity. And nursing is nothing like masturbation. I think we need to get back to a real debate here.

Here's why it's a good thing: Yes, it can help promote nursing. Children will play anyway. My daughter will get a bowl and pretend it's a pot or pan....why not buy a pot or pan? It's just a doll. who cares.

Bad - people think boobs are just for sex and then get a skewed view of what the whole thing is about.

And loss of innocence....guess I should have kept my kids away from the funerals we had to go to. Shatters the whole innocence thing there. And nursing....really? Is a child seeing a mother nurse going to turn them into perverts? Mothers only started to formula feed in the last century really. Oh the perversion of the past sure trump the psychos out there today. I'm again missing the loss of innocence in NURSING.

Jennifer - posted on 04/01/2011

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I didn't say that..you're blowing my comment slightly out of proportion. And if we are talking about props..then the flower crap is pointless and unnecessary. Bottles are a real thing..flower boobies are not. Little girls don't need a prop to mime breastfeeding. They just need to do what they see their mothers doing. (which would not entail putting on a tanktop with flowers on it for the baby to suck on)

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You know guys - it's just a doll. There is such a thing as over-analyzing something... My little girl couldn't care less if something is classified as an educational toy or whatever, she creates her own games anyway. Given a doll like that, she might actually decide it's the only one she won't nurse.

Tinker1987 - posted on 04/01/2011

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you can play make believe by a child holding any normal doll to her chest and imagining in her own head a sucking sound or whatever sound she thinks the baby should make. Placing a creepy battery operated device to your kids chest is not using your imagination.

Stifler's - posted on 04/01/2011

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How is having a bottle feeding doll "having every toy you could possibly want". Are my parents "bad parents" by your standards for buying me toys instead of telling me to go outside and play with dirt? How can you "play make believe" without props.

Jennifer - posted on 04/01/2011

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It's a stupid toy and yes as Keli said..kinda creepy. It's not about a "loss of innocence" or anything like that.

If a little girl wants to pretend to breastfeed her dolls because that's what she sees mommy do there is nothing wrong with that. But why do we need a ridiculous shirt with flowers on it ( I don't know about you ladies but my boobs DO NOT look like flowers). And a "suckling" baby doll?

Its called imagination and creativity people! Let the child come up with these things on their own. Was everyone in this forum a privileged child growing up with every toy you could possibly want? Or did you have to play make-believe once in awhile (without actual toys)

Playing feed the baby is one thing. Saying we need to provide a toy that shows toddlers how to properly nurse a baby is a tad absurd. That's what we have breastfeeding classes for when you're a grown up

Jennifer - posted on 04/01/2011

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It's a stupid toy and yes as Keli said..kinda creepy. It's not about a "loss of innocence" or anything like that.

If a little girl wants to pretend to breastfeed her dolls because that's what she sees mommy do there is nothing wrong with that. But why do we need a ridiculous shirt with flowers on it ( I don't know about you ladies but my boobs DO NOT look like flowers). And a "suckling" baby doll?

Its called imagination and creativity people! Let the child come up with these things on their own. Was everyone in this forum a privileged child growing up with every toy you could possibly want? Or did you have to play make-believe once in awhile (without actual toys)

Playing feed the baby is one thing. Saying we need to provide a toy that shows toddlers how to properly nurse a baby is a tad absurd. That's what we have breastfeeding classes for when you're a grown up

Stifler's - posted on 04/01/2011

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I'm still not sure why this is different to bottle feeding dolls... which by the way have been around for 20 years or so. I had a doll that peed and opened and shut their eyes and had a bottle when I was a kid! I don't know how it "doesn't encourage imagination".. excuses. Bottle feeding dolls don't teach kids how to really bottle feed, they don't get the sterilising, getting up through the night and stopping half way through for burps or any of that... it's the general idea.

Tinker1987 - posted on 04/01/2011

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Breastfeeding is not an action you can "learn" with a doll the makes noises activated by a sencor. What exactly to you think this doll could train anyone to do? It doesn't actually suckle, I'm posative it doesnt weigh nearly as much as a real baby, there is no mention of it crying when it needs something, or that it shows hunger cues. It can teach nothing. This doll is only debateable because of it's price tag.

what if you brainwash your daughter so bad to breastfeed and mother nature decides it isnt happening not everyone can breastfeed.so let your kids make the decision when the time comes.! Hearing and seeing a doll sucking from a childs chest is not going to encourage breastfeeding it will creep people out even more!

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@ Tonya: Why do you associate children playing feed-the-baby with a loss of innocents? Nursing is a normal part of my toddlers life, there is nothing forced about her playing this out. Do you mean children who havn't seen nursing before and need their parents to show them how the doll works? I don't really think it's a toy bought by parents who are bottle-feeding, just a guess.

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@Lady Jane: I thought this was a toy, not a device to teach little girls how to breastfeed properly. What does it matter that they can't actually breastfeed a baby? They can't actually do a lot of things (like nursing a dog, building houses or driving a fire engine). If that's your standard for what makes an appropriate toy than you are not really left with an awful lot.

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@ Amy Kruse.I breastfed my son so where you got the shame on Breastfeeding is beyond me...I don't think kids need to be taught about everything just because we can teach it to them.I want my son to be able to enjoy being a kid before life forces him to learn things like this and as for the innocence factor.Why would it be any different for a doll to have penis or a vagina .Hey the kid has to learn what intercourse is so lets take it that one step further.Hell why not go ahead and teach them what sex is and how to masturbate or oh lets see if we have some smart ones in the class and see how fast they can understand.The loss of innocence is so important that we want these kids to learn how to breastfeed before they know how to count to 100!!! Now do YOU think there is a difference between a doll showing how to breastfeed and a doll showing how to play with ones privates?Whats the difference????Still a natural bodily function and totally natural right?

Tinker1987 - posted on 04/01/2011

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why cant they learn to cook and clean and assist mothers with newborns? My niece loved helping her in the kitchen (away from the stove of course) and for cleaning its good to teach them at a young age to pick up around the house and if they independant enough they can most definetly help look after the baby and made to feel important! Im not saying breastfeeding is wrong im saying a kid Looking like she'd doing the real thing looks wrong!!

Amy - posted on 04/01/2011

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They don't need to learn to cook or clean or take care of babies either. But kids like to play.

Again, I wouldn't buy this doll, but my daughter sees me breastfeeding and copies. Not telling her it's wrong. People let their kids watch them pee and that's okay, but not nursing...that's...gross?? deviant? sexual? nope. Guess that's why i don't get the big deal. Dolls with bottles are okay, but not one to nurse?

Rosie - posted on 04/01/2011

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i dont' think they need to learn how to breastfeed, i think they need to learn that breastfeeding is normal though. still don't like this doll, it's pretty creepy. they can learn other ways..

LadyJane - posted on 04/01/2011

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I still think it's an inappropriate toy for children. Why do they need to learn how to breastfeed now? Honestly? They don't even develop breasts until they're 12. So it's completely ridiculous. It's a whole different situation if the doll was just a bottle feeding, pooping, peeing, crying doll. 5yr olds can actually help with those things at that age. When I was 5 I diapered my cousin and fed him with the bottle. They can't help with breastfeeding so why do they need to learn how at that young of an age???

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I won't buy the doll cuz it's pointless for me and too dang expensive. My kids have all 'breastfed' dolls or other things.... for free. My girls may not 'understand' the full importance of breastfeeding, but they've been very well aware that it is a perfectly normal and acceptable way of feeding a baby/kid.

I don't let my kids pretend to kill each other. Doesn't mean it never happens.... they ARE kids, after all, but pretend play where hurting or killing takes place is STRONGLY discouraged in this house.....

Amy - posted on 04/01/2011

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My 4 year old shouldn't be restricted from playing or nursing and told it's "wrong" - then she may not want to nurse her children when she grows up.

I should wait until my child gets knocked up early to show her...sorry. I'm pregnant, I will be having a new baby in a few months and life will happen - she will learn really fast if she didn't pick it up from my nursing her brother when he was a baby.

I wouldn't go out and buy this doll on purpose, but my daughter already plays this with her doll. I don't think it's being sold as an "educational device". Did I misunderstand that?

Tinker1987 - posted on 04/01/2011

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i dont see anything wrong with a child pretending to nurse but the doll making noises and bobbing its head around to me is just creepy.I understand parents want too encourage breastfeeding more but why not educate them better when the time is right.like if your daughter gets pregnant at a young age or so enourage why you think that person should nurse.telling a 5 year old why nursing is important these days will go in one ear and out the other at that age! they dont understand why you need to feed through the breast there just copying what they see! therfor why buy such a ridiculous expensive doll.

Amy - posted on 04/01/2011

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Well, I'm not going to hide the fact that I'm going to be nursing my baby. I don't see any shame in feeding a child. Not sure how it's a loss of innocence.

Why is the baby on your boobie? That's where milk comes from to feed babies. We can look up pictures of all kinds of animals. It's how moms feed little ones until old enough to do it themselves. I guess I don't understand how it's a loss of innocence.

Mabel - posted on 04/01/2011

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The doll has been around in other countries but has not been in the states for too long from what I was reading.I don't like the dolls period and I do agree with the kids today needing to use their imagination but they also need to keep some sense of innocents too.I think this doll just opens up too much of why and what questions for parents to answer at too early an age.I just got my little guy Play dough and he loves it...teach them to make something, not show how to buy something to do it for you.

Amy - posted on 04/01/2011

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Firstly, quite obviously a different country/culture where breastfeeding is the norm and THE way to feed a child.

My daughter pretends to nurse her bitty baby dolls all the time. I nursed her younger brother..t.hat's how you feed a baby. It's not really too weird. If it had giant breasts and tits hanging off it, inappropriate. IT's little flowers, for pity's sake. And this doll have been around for a few years. Obviously still a good seller, right?

I don't really buy toys for the kids. I got them blocks and legos and the rest are gifts from grandma/family. I'm not huge on toys. The fewer the toys, the bigger the imagination.

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Well it is a little unusual i have to say. I'm not really sure what to say about that. I mean on one hand it's no different then the dolls that you need to feed with a bottle, or that pee's or anything else for that matter. And lets face it, if you're breastfeeding your baby and your little girl see's that and what to imitate you nothing is stoping her from getting her own doll and doing the same. The only difference with this doll is that it makes sounds. I don't really know if i would get that for my daughters because i'm still a little uneasy about seing my 3-4-5-6 or what ever age breastfeeding, but hey by all means if another mom buys it then koodoos.......

Lindsay - posted on 04/01/2011

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I would not buy the doll. I also won't buy the baby alive dolls. I don't like a toy that plays for the child. They can use their own imagination.

Tinker1987 - posted on 04/01/2011

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On another note im curious on what fathers think of the doll,have any of you asked your husband/significant other if they like this doll?
I asked a few men i know and they think the idea is creepy and one even said the creator of the doll has a brain the size of a pea!

Tinker1987 - posted on 04/01/2011

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trace my replies? what are you talking about lady...

Your missing the point of my last reply,i have been in this thread for a couple days and i never insulted ANYONE who likes the doll.i insulted the IDEA of the doll.and why i dont like it what i see wrong with it! Your the second one who has made comments that are not necessary,your not debating the doll your taking it to another level that i dont like! just because i think the doll is ridiculous and would never buy it doesnt mean i would think of anything rude to say to someone who does. Kids actually can Murder people even by mistake if they were playing with a gun and they can also learn to steal at a early age,but a little girl WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO BREASTFEED. and another thing if you would actually read all my replies i never said breastfeeding was weird and so dont put me in that category. im 100 percent breastfeeding friendly if i see it i dont cringe or anything its natural to me to see A MOTHER breastfeeding their child and sharing that special bond.it is not natural for me to see a Kid using a doll like this.

Veronica - posted on 04/01/2011

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I wasnt slamming anyone - i dont understand what the controversy is - thats all - sorry that i used 'those' words.

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You guys are so weird to me :) Really!!! They can pretend and imagine to murder and rob, but not breastfeed their baby doll? Mmmm i agree if you want your kids to imagine it - let them. If you don't want your kids to do such things in public "God forbid", tell them. It is your right and responsibility to pass on the sense you have made of the chaos in our world... BUT I personally think it is a joke that you get your panties in a knot over a doll - really steer your energy into more positive causes - for example getting toy guns and swords off the shelves? Breastfeeding is weird cause we have made it weird - it isn't, it is more natural than bottle feeding. If my kid likes that doll and wants it - she can have it. Go a little into the developmental stages of children and you might make a breakthrough discovery... it is very important that children pretend play. They need it, to cultivate a nature of nuture and care, and that happens through expressive play. They still have to pretend that flower is a real boob - but the attention is on the nuturing the baby.



Geez I am reminded of how weird this world has actually become. Keli you seem like a nice "modern" girl - but please trace your replies.

Doreen - posted on 04/01/2011

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O my WORD I think it is really cute!!! Wish I thought of that. The halter neck top is not offensive at all - it's not like a big BOOB hanging out. And I honestly think if you want to change the world - it starts there doesn't it, when they tots? IF you want to encourage mothers to breastfeed and send a "breastmilk is best" message - I think it is cute to teach the children from "play". Excellent idea, but at the end of the day I'd refrain from something someone else might not think twice about purchasing for their kid... so it really is just about YOU as the parent. And anyway if i can afford to buy my kid a doll that she can breastfeed I dont' really care if you do or if you don't. Pregnant barbie.... leaves my kids with much more confusion and explanation than boobie sucking baby...

Becky - posted on 04/01/2011

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I'm not bothered by the doll, but it's not something I would buy. For one, I wouldn't pay $100.00 for a doll. For 2, I don't see the point. My boys can't breastfeed babies anyways, and they have learned about it because that's how I feed my babies. Cole already knows that babies eat mommy's boobies, not daddy's! :) If I have a daughter, I'll either buy her dolls without bottles or get rid of the bottles that came with them and she can figure out how they're fed.
My neice told me she got a potty training Barbie for her birthday. It comes with a potty with poop in it. Now that is gross, IMO! A breastfeeding doll is not.

Kim - posted on 03/31/2011

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While I don't think I would buy it, I also don't see anything wrong with it. If it is okay to buy a doll with a bottle then what is the problem with one that breastfeeds? The only reason I wouldn't buy it is because my daughter doesn't need a special doll with a bib to pretend that she is breastfeeing. She can use her imagination and pretend to breastfeed with a normal one. I can see where a child that hasn't been around mothers that breastfeed may benefit from it because it would show them how some mommys feed their babys.

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my daughter watches me breastfeed my 8wk old. she will pretend to breastfeed any toy with a face, lol. so there's no need to spend that much on a doll. but i don't think it's creepy, little girls emulate their mothers.

Johnny - posted on 03/31/2011

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It's a waste of money. What normalizes breastfeeding is seeing mothers breastfeeding babies, not getting a special doll for it. I don't give my daughter dolls with bottles either. If she wants to feed them, she can stick them under her shirt or grab some fake solid food. Personally, I don't think anyone needed to invent or manufacture this doll, I think it would just help if we stopped making all other dolls with bottles. If the kid wants to nurse her dolly like Mommy, then that's what they do. If they want to bottlefeed, go to the store and pick up a toy bottle.

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hmm i wouldn't buy the doll only because in todays society, in general, we have a problem with not being able to let our kids be kids. For some reason they have to know how to behave beyond their years, we dress them like young adults, teach them to be independent at a very young age and they know and think about things that kids just shouldn't need to worry about.



If I had a daughter who came up with this by herself with her doll then I wouldn't care, it's just a natural part of life. My son would "breast feed" his cuddle toy after seeing me feed his baby brother. I just don't think the idea of buying them a doll that is designed for "breast feeding" is a great idea.

Tinker1987 - posted on 03/31/2011

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@Veronica
thats fine and dandy you support the doll,but you dont have to judge those who dont. i dont like the doll but i dont shake my head at those who do. comments like "getting over myself" and "people..." isnt necessary. its a debate on if you would buy the doll for a girl or not.not a debate on slamming the people if they do or dont!

Veronica - posted on 03/31/2011

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p.s. my daughters pretend to breastfeed their dolls already, and we did the same thing when we were little - my son was even trying to 'breastfeed' the dolls too - too darn cute and hilarious ;) People..

Veronica - posted on 03/31/2011

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Saw this before - I think its fine - what IS the big deal? I think it would be more "offensive" or not right - if the halter top had fake breasts on it - that would be where the line would need to be drawn - these are little flowers - and the doll isn't literally suckling of the girl, either -- People need to quit sexualizing breasts/breastfeeding and get over their selves already.

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