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soo i wake up this morning to a STUPID FUCKING EMAIL from my husband. im PISSED...2 weeks before court and now hes trying to fuck with my head...FUCK YOU YOU STUPID ABANDONING WORTHLESS PIECE OF SHIT ASSHOLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! god damnit i am pissed...try to fuck with my head...he actually asked me to be HUMAN about all this...EXCUSE ME?? wheres your god damned humanity? wheres your fucking compassion when YOU WALKED OUT ON YOUR WIFE AND CHILD!!! so what if im taking him to court...the government is making me....what the fuck does he expect...you make a baby you have to deal with it. he could have used a condom...what did he think was going to happen? he should know me well enough to know i don't take shit from anyone...be human HA wait till he sees just how human i am. I AM DOING THIS ALL BY MYSELF WITH NO HELP AND HE DARES ASK SOMETHING FROM ME!!!!!! how dare him...really. then he says stop trying to find me cause you never will...ahem....i was NOT trying to find him!!! i was trying to talk to him...thats all. just talk...like about our son, the bills, the shit he stole from me and my son. that stuff...FUCK HIM. and he also said he will always love both of us no matter what anyone on any side says...ahem...oh really? hmm you sure know how to show it asshole...you love us soo much why am i on welfare...why does your son not know who the fuck you are? why are we here and you whereever the fuck your at??? why are we living day to day without your apparent love. he has not been here since my son was 7 days old...never returned a phone call never paid a penny never tried to come see his son not once. and 2 weeks before court he decides to pull this shit...he says he would talk to me but im taking him to court...well DUH welcome to reality douchebag. this is what happens when you have a wife and child. you cannot just walk away with all my shit and expect me to let you!!! you gotta be fucking kidding me! he is absalutly EVIL for what he has done and even more so for trying to screw with my head...im not backing down...come back if you want but we are still going to court buddy....im done with mind games and im done being walked on by the one person i will love forever and that i married and wanted to spend the rest of my life with...fuck that. im tough and i can do this. i was doing sooo much better until this fucking email fuck him. hes going to be NOTHING by the time im through with him...be human HA watch this. thanks for letting me vent...no carrie i do not want a chill pill hahaha just needed to get that out.

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CARRIE - posted on 10/19/2009

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Quoting Kristan:

haha ya man. its lame. and they say we are the whiners BAHAHAHA how they make me laugh oh well. karma'll get em in the long run. everyone pays. LOL



IS HE TRYING TO GET BACK WITHYOU    AND WHAT THE HELL IS POSTS FLAGGED BY USERS?

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haha ya man. its lame. and they say we are the whiners BAHAHAHA how they make me laugh oh well. karma'll get em in the long run. everyone pays. LOL

Ginny - posted on 10/19/2009

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LMAO between shit and syphillis!! I totally agree Kristan, they want it all and we don't get shit from them in return.

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holy, its soo sad when the men all think they deserve sympathy, where the hell is our sympathy, we do all the work, we feel every kick, we birth them, and all they have to do is get off during sex and they think their work is done??? i dont fucking think so. i hate men that are slackers. like my ex is saying all this crap about how he doesn't know if he should be in my kids life because he doesn't want him torn...he is just making sorry ass excuses to make him being gone look ok. im sooo sick of it. i have done this by myself for almost 3 months now if hes looking for sympathy he can find it in the dictionary, right between shit and syphillis LMAO

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I just took my ex to court for a protection order and the son of a bitch had the nerve to ist on the stand and ask for sympathy because he was in the military for 6yrs and has post tramatic stress disorder. Umm excuse the fuck outta me but since when did that have anything to do with being an asshole and a stalker. He also sat there and told the judge and court room that he didn't know if my unborn child is his because I slept with other people!! The fucking nerve!! I couldn't have slept with anyone else because he never let me out of his sight. Oh yeah and not to mention I'm not a cheater, unlike him!! So I was granted a 6month protection order and you would think things would be better, um yeah NO!! I went out with the girls Saturday night and the fucker showed up as we were paying our bills. Hey fuck face, you saw me so turn around and go wait in your pos truck for 5 fucking minutes until I leave, then you can go into the bar and get waisted!!

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hahaha no chill pills!!!! thank you guys so much. your right ginny, it probably is all just crap to get him off the hook, but im not giving into it. i told him what needs to be done so until he gets his life in order theres no chance in hell. and also i would still take him to court anyways cause like you said it could all just be lies. im not getting screwed again thats for sure.

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You're doing the right thing. Like Mitch said take all the e-mails to court with you. He's just blowing smoke up your ass hoping that you'll give in and he'll be off the hook. Nothing he is saying is real, you know this in your heart. If what he was saying was real he wouldn't have left you in the first place. You deserve so much better than that piece of shit!! Keep your head up and be the strong woman you are. We all might not be able to be right there with you but believe me, in our way we are there with you!!

Mitch - posted on 10/18/2009

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I told you and kristan, what you really need to get your minds clear of all the things that hurt you is to find something else to focus on, you two can start with old perv guy, then invisible guy, cat. and then superwoman and catwoman and invisible man can have an orgy of destruction, that will show the damn bastards...lol...mitch

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i don't want to be with you if your just gonna make me unhappy, life is to sort to be unhappy. and there a difference between being a bitch and you so it does count. i'm sorry for everything.

i still don't thing to do is on point you know. i don't want to tear him apart between parents and i still want him so i need your help on that decision cause if i do see him i want to fight with you. if i don't see him again it will suck but at least he won't see the bulshit and maybe he will grow up normal. i don't know

that is the shit he is sending me now...i don't know what to think...how can he think abandoning is better...and if he did want scotty why the fuck is he not here with him talking and playing, bathing feeding and putting him to bed...why am i the only one doing it..and to say he doesn't want to be with me if im gunna make him unhappy,,how does he even know what being unhappy is...all he does is whatever he wants and leaves scott for everyone else to take care of, won't even send money, nothing. i don't understand. and carrie, thank you so much, we will be ok soon, and we will definatly meet one day, hell mabe i'll move to the states lmao i just wish he would stop sending me shit that makes no sense...hes really mind fucking me and i hate that he is doing it..

CARRIE - posted on 10/18/2009

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Quoting Kristan:

lol right on



KRISTAN--------



               I FEEL THE SAME WAY AS YOU. I KEEP ASKING MYSELF WHY WOULD HE DO THIS TO US? WHY CANT WE JUST BE A FAMILY? WHY DONT YOU LOVE ME ANYMORE? I WONDER IF THEY DO LOVE US. HELL THEY KEEP GIVING US SHIT EVERYDAY. DO THEY ACTUALLY CARE? I HAVE FUCKING DREAMS EVERYNITE, THAT WHEN I WAKE UP IM IN A PANIC ATTACK.



WHATS WEIRD IS YOU AND MITCH SEEM TO UNDER STAND ALL THE SHIT. WE REALLY NEED TO PLAN IN THE FUTURE TO MEET UP ONE DAY. ACTUALLY I WISH I COULD GO TO COURT WITH YOU. I BELIEVE IT IS UP TO YOU IF YOU WANT TO BRING SCOTTY TO COURT. IF YOU HAVE A BABYSITTER, THEN USE THEM. IF NOT TAKE HIM. UP TO YOU MY LOVE. U CANT LOSE IT BECUSE I NEED YOU TO BE STRONG FOR BOTH OF US. SAME WITH ME AND MITCH. O SHIT, JEWELS LOOKS JUST LIKE DUMMIE TOO. ITS HARD AS HELL TO LOOK AT HER AND NOT THINK OF HIM. I EVEN CAN STARE AT HER FOR HOURS. UG! SOMTIMES IT BREAKS MY HEART SO BAD, THAT I GET A PAIN IN MY CHEST.            YOUR FRIEND ALWAYS,



                                                                                                                      CARRIE AND JEWEL

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ya definatly. i know what you mean. im way better off without him anyways. hey i can't find you. you'll have to add me lol Kristan McAuley.

Mitch - posted on 10/18/2009

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EXACTLY, When we least expect it our lives can change and in your case and mine it can only get better. you know what I mean?

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haha ya..one day. not ready yet i don't think. no his friend isn't bad. he's always liked me, hes the nice one outta the group. but he has a gf right now. but who knows right? lol

Mitch - posted on 10/18/2009

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Well is his friend cute? watch out girl, you got nothing to worry about.You are a little hottie, so just watch out boys come here comes kristan...

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ya. i can't believe him. what a fuckin douchebag. really. and then i told him that he is nothing to me anymore but a sperm donor and if he can't see what the hell he did and still only think about himself im done with him he can go rot for all i care. boo fucking hoo, ya he might go to jail so what. thats the least of his problems, even criminals have morals and when they find out why hes in there cause they will hes not gunna like it at all. what a loser. he still doesn't realize what he did. and to try to blame anything on me, harsh, im being a mother, this is what we do, i will not let him hurt me and my son and get away with walking away. even his best friend told me last night that what he did was really weak and he is still gunna come meet my son and keep in touch because lance is a loser. thats pretty bad when your own friends start hating you for what you did. like wow. i don't understand how he thinks this is nothing? how dumb can you be. ugh.

Mitch - posted on 10/17/2009

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Well it is your turn to abandon him, in his thoughts and fears, you have had a rough go, alone, he wanted to be alone, so pay no attention to his needs, it is your turn and your needs and the babies needs are the only ones that matter..I mean if you have any problem with reasons why you might help him weasel out of his responsibilities, just read the first letter you posted, I remember, so do you. This is not love, now you are clinging to a hope, you don't want to cling to, It will just drag things out. I realize that it is impossible not to be in pain when you are in love, but that is just it, if it was true love the first thing his e mails should have started with was an apology, and one hell of an ass kissing, which I am willing to do for him because I am sure you have a cute butt..lol

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thank you soo much. im trying to be strong. i really am. he is just making it soo hard...what a douche. why can't enough be enough you know? he got what he wanted...isn't that enough for him?

Mitch - posted on 10/17/2009

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As far as your son reminding you of him, make him the man you wished his father would have been, and you will be rewarded greatly. and you will be so very proud. also much tougher, and not so easy to hurt again, although never say never...I will continue writing as long as you need...mitch

Mitch - posted on 10/17/2009

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Well a good couple of bottles of beer, or wine, can help ease the pain, crying yourself to sleep, will be one sided again, your eyes will be puffy because you were crying and you won't look like the hottie, I tell you, you are, maybee you want to hook up with an old man, I know how to treat a woman, my only problem is I usually end up with the one sided love also, so at least we have something in common....two poor souls you and me, but our souls will be rich soon, and I carry you in my thoughts everyday, and wish i was there to help you through your most difficult time...mitch

Mitch - posted on 10/17/2009

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Because you are in love, and in pain, and truth be told, I don't think the pain ever goes away completely, I mean I was married 18 years and it took my oldest kid to tell me I think mom is cheating, I mean it is abandonment of the family but I am now glad that I did not try to work it out with her, I mean leaving you at a time like that is something you will allways carry with you, and if I could I would go there so you could have a shoulder to cry on..Carrie to, I mean no matter what being hurt in love is a pain that is hard to compare, and that lonely feeling gets sad, but it does get better and you will get stronger and you will find a man, that brings support and love in your life again, and you will look back and try to help people like I try to help you. It just doesn't seem like it right now. You will also look back and realize what was there for me to love. I was in love he was not, you can't force it, and you can't trust it, unless it is two sided, It took me all these years that i never trully had a woman that loved me, and as sad as that may be, I will know if the right one comes along, at my age that may never happen but at your age, you will find true love, not one sided love. I mean you are a hottie so watch out boys....mitch

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and my son looks just like him...its so sad to look at him every day and see his father...i don't know how much more i can handle...i was doing soo good and he spiraled my life outta control all over again...how can i stop letting him get to me? i dont know what to do anymore...fuck....

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thank you. i just can't stop crying. how could that be the only thing he cares about is going to fucking jail. and to say he didn't do anything to me...ya fucking right. hasn't been around since his son was 7 days old. and to start emailing me now...what is the point. i emailed him back after he said he didnt do anything to me and said look up abandonment then you will know the seriousness of what you have done..then i asked why he did what he did and if it hurt to walk away and if he ever thinks of us or even knows how i am feeling, if he likes the fact that im alone and sad and can't stop crying to know that i love him soo much and he jsut walked away like we were nothing. i just want to stop hurting....im soo sad today. i don't want to cry anymore...i just don't understand any of this...why bother like really...

Mitch - posted on 10/17/2009

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Well you have taken care of a baby, gone through a pregnancy, when you need your man the most, I mean lets be honest, the trauma, fear, sadness, depression, that he caused by just bailing on you in your greatest time of need, what the fuck does he expect from you, sympathy? Yea right, I know two things, he will not be going to jail, because he is not that far behind in his child support payments, so that is a sympathy play, let me tell you this where was his sympathy when you were delivering his baby? you just stay focused and do not allow him to influence what you need to do. You just have to go to the court and be honest. He has to go to court and squirm like a worm, and if I was you, even though you love him, which might make you do something not so good, like give in and try to let him off the hook for child support, but remember two things. One both of you had sex, two both of you have a baby. Why should you be the only responsible one, I mean so far you have been and you sit there praying for the miracle of him coming to his senses, but the only thing he comes up with is what is going to happen to him....This is exactly the opposite of a man you need in your life, you need a supportive, caring man, who will nurture your feelings along with your babies, and get a job, start paying his child support and take care of his responsibilities...Man up is what I call it. You can take these letters I write you and read it to him, mayee he will see just how piss poor you and the baby have been treated. especially at a time when the only treatment you should have recieved was the treatment of a precious angel....mitch

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you guys...he keeps emailing me stupid shit...im really down right now...he said he didn't even do anything to me and stuff and that he is going to go to jail cause he can't pay and shit...im soo down...hes really fucking me up big time...i don't understand what the point in all this is....

Mitch - posted on 10/17/2009

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Oh well now you are being bad, that really would give me a heart attack I mean a young lady tag team, well kristan you really are superwoman...lol.. by the way I allready got the heart attack just using my mind....lol....gotta run...I will chat with you later...remember you have some people in your corner, write whenever you want...mitch

Mitch - posted on 10/17/2009

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Yes you are right but you are stronger, you are superwoman,lol..Have you decided just how you are gonna give me that heart attack..lol..I look forward to it...

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lol so true. hopefully everything works out for the best for everyone though, without the bad things we would be weak and not strong like we all are :)

Mitch - posted on 10/17/2009

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Yes she is sarcastic like us, the funny thing is sarcastic people get that way because of people fucking us over, then well we get like fuck everyone. lol

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LOL i love outsmarting people too! love the sarcasm wittyness haha but i must say i get angry lol

Mitch - posted on 10/17/2009

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This is venting for me. I allways got people mad cause I don't get angry, I just try to outsmart them, sometimes that doesn't work as well as just killing them..lol

Mitch - posted on 10/17/2009

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Yes and you can use your superpowers to give this old man a heart attack you young stuff...lol

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haha yes i have heard of him before dont listen to him personally but i love music haha and yes i thought your invisible post was pretty funny :) but im superwoman so i would still be able to see you lol

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alberta canada. shitty little town. and i gotta drive to wainwright for court. provost has like nothing but oilpatch here lol

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alright sweet. i thought i made the right choice in not bringing him....my mom said i should but no. it doesnt feel right.

Mitch - posted on 10/17/2009

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Don't bring him to court and like Carrie said don't worry about facebook, I mean it is just a site for bullshiting anyway.

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