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Closet lesbian problem…

Kate - posted on 06/12/2016 ( 7 moms have responded )

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I'm a 31 year old woman and for most of my life I've struggled with my sexuality. Not really sure if I'm bi or gay but I know I'm attracted to women.

Here's the thing my 13 year old niece (she's like a daughter she lives with me) she says she thinks she's gay



I'm not really sure what to say to her. I've just barely come to accept my own same sex attraction.

I don't want to say she's too young but I fear I'll project my insecurities on to her.

Any ideas?

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Kate - posted on 01/01/2018

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It is quite enjoyable it was from there that I discovered my true attraction to women.

Kate - posted on 12/29/2017

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Yes she has always known I don’t hide it from her. But I think she’s old enough to understand her feelings there’s a lot more information out there than 20 years ago.

I can remember being 11/12 and being attracted to girls yet not completely understanding why.

Kate - posted on 07/24/2017

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That's true all my fantasies are of women but I'm probably just too scared to admit to myself that I'm gay

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