Should i stay with him or move on?

JoAnne - posted on 07/04/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




Ive been in the relationship for almost a year and through out it, its just drama. Im 17 and hes 24 and he used to be a big time player but now he says hes stopped but i used to hear from alot of people that he would bring girls to the house or still talk to his exs or even hit on girls in the park when i wasnt living with him (he evn tried sleeping with my friend) and now that i live with him it all stopped but i think its because now im here and he cant go anywhere. But not to long ago ive found out he was with a 16 year old (coming from her) and when i confronted him he denied everything until at the end he said it was her who forced him to kiss her and everything. Which i dont believe so on that day we got violent like literally . ON TOP OF THAT we get into the fights because of the baby. My baby just cries in he just slaps him in the head telling him nasty things like llorona (p*to) and some other words and i hate it but yet its hard to leave him. Now that he knows im not in love with him(but still i dont leave his house) hes acting different in a good way. ... but should i leave him?


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Lisa - posted on 08/02/2012




Run and dont look back. Take care of you and your baby. Trust me mamita, Im a woman of 41 years old. I wasted 12 years on a man just like yours. Dont make the same mistake. Work on finding hapiness for yourself and your child....and let the player continue his game.

Good luck babes.

Vanessa - posted on 07/10/2012




I don't think anyone should tell you to leave him or not - you should know your limit. Everyone has one and when you are ready you will know what to do. You should be happy in any relationship that you are in. If you aren;t happy - no one else will be.
You need to think of your baby's happiness too.
All the best !

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