Wanting another baby but not sure

Tigger - posted on 01/17/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Hey okay so I had my baby is Nov 09 and she is wonderful part of me wants another baby another part don't and my husband isn't sure cause he missed the birth of r daughter he don't want 2 miss another 1 so I mean sometimes I think just 1 is enough then I look back and I love having siblings and I would like 4 her 2 have the same.. But I get scared that I wont b able 2 handle it also when he is deployed can anyone help me that may feel the same or felt the same??

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Tigger - posted on 01/18/2010

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Thank u so much this helps a lot.. Well I kinda want 2 try when he gets back cause by time he gets back Gracie will b 11mths old and I would like another child its nice 2 know I'm not the only 1 that has these worries though.. Thanks..

Jennifer - posted on 01/17/2010

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i totally can relate to u! when i was preggo with my first son my hubby was supposed to be there but when i was about 16weekks they told him pack up ur gettin deployed early we need u so he missed the birth of his son...he didnt come home til my son was 2mo old..when he got home we started to try for another one..this way if i did get preggo then he would be there for this one..well it took 2yrs to get pregnant and here we are again with a baby on the way...,and its awsome bc he is here for it all and its like a first experience for him..he loves it...we r moving to hawaii soon after she is goin to be born and he knows that he is goin to be gettin deployed and let me tell u i am absolutely terrified to raise to kids on my own and for him to miss what he will if he does get deployed..but its all part of being a military wife...trust me u can do it and u are strong enuff to do it! if u can be a military wife...u can do jus about nething...and having kids to bond with and be there with u when ur hubby is deployed helps alot as welll...if u can maybe fnd oout if there is a chance that he will be deplloying soon then i would say wait til he comes back and then start tryin like crazy then ull know he will be there for it...if hes not well then make the decision to either wait or try...but i can defenately relate to ur worries bc i have them too...

Jessica - posted on 01/17/2010

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My husband just joined the Military and i am due with my second child in 2 months. I am worried about my husband missing our daughters birth and her never seeing him becuz of his deployments. I think its just apart of being a military spouse...but if u really want a second baby then i say go for it but look at the entire picture and talk about how u both feel, eventually ur heart will tell u the choice thats right for u...good luck and i hope things work out as u want them to.

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