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Merry - posted on 08/06/2011 ( 11 moms have responded )

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What little things does your man do do to show you he loves you?

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Sunshine - posted on 09/19/2011

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Kyle will let me sleep in and will take care of the boys, he will watch my favorite shows like Chuck, One Tree Hill, Saved By The Bell and others with me. I am not into flowers that much so I love when he gives me Snickers chocolate bars :)

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Tah - posted on 09/25/2011

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yes sunshine..sometimes i just think about one and he comes home and has one he stopped to buy me..lol

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he used to buy me flowers constantly until one day he bought me im sorry flowers once again because hed been an ass and I hit him with them and told him flowers dont fix everything. Now he makes me a tea after dinner, coffee some mornings, he lets me sleep in, he watches my thursday night show with me (in the summer its rookie blue every other time of year its greys anatomy lol), all kinds of things really. hes come a long way in the variety sense since when we first dated and it was flowers all the time.

Tah - posted on 08/11/2011

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I almost forgot to finish..

Washes and gases the cars..until the Honda stopped working..I don't remember the last time I filled my own truck up..lol

Cleans the house, top to bottom , I mean the man gets on his hands and knees and does the carpet cause he said he does it better than the machine..lol

Gives me time for myself by taking the kids to the park, movies, pool etc.

He spoils me to no end..no compliants..lol

Merry - posted on 08/07/2011

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Matt used to buy me flowers but then I told him not to because I get all weird and sentimental when they die, sort of like a bad symbolism of our love dying....if he wants to buy me something that I'll love he buys me chocolate :)

Stifler's - posted on 08/06/2011

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We just tell each other we love them every day. I hardly ever get flowers and he just lets me buy what I want instead of shopping and getting something I don't like. He's useless at shopping.

Tah - posted on 08/06/2011

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Thanks Laura I was gonna start this one as well but fell asleep..lol...he does everything for me..lol



1.reminds every time I tell him what days I'm working I don't have to go..lol



2. Irons my clothes for me



3. Makes my plate..even if I cook, He will tell me to sit down after..



4. Takes me on dates still..as a matter of fact we are leaving for one now..lol



5. Sends me shoes and clothes and flowers when he's deployed...there's more but I gotta run...date night calls..lol

Stifler's - posted on 08/06/2011

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He goes to the beach even though he hates it because I like it. ANd a lot of other stuff.

♏*PHOENIX*♏ - posted on 08/06/2011

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Well how much time do you ladies have??? :-)



Aside from STILL buying me anything I want



He is the same person now that I met almost 6years ago (our anniversary is this November on my birthday the 4th)

You know sometimes people wine and dine you when you first meet and then all that stops when they get comfy…well not him he still wine and dines me and is thoughtful…in and out of the bedroom ;-)

And we have had our ups and downs but when you are in a committed relationship whether married or not you stick and work it out and we have. The GOOD defiantly outweighs the bad :-)

I could list every little thing he as done..but I will spare you

There are things he just automatically does like the garbage, or change our sons diaper when he sees it needs to be done.

And then there are other things that he does..



He cooks for me (when he has time..not everyday)

He fills up my gas tank (we both have our own cars)

Not only got me new tires for my car but they were rims

He will take our oldest with him places (so that I can have a little piece and quiet) and im sure when our youngest is older he will take him to (I cant wait for those days…lol)





He makes sure I am okay and our boys are okay :-)

Billie - posted on 08/06/2011

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My husband will handle any chore in the house, easy. If he sees that I'm having a rough day or if he doesn't have anything to do, he will help me around the house. He will take care of the little ones in the morning on weekends so that way I get a chance to sleep in, that's before he deployed our littlest was 3 months and younger and our toddler is 2yrs old. It was rough with the baby keeping me up all night and then having to get up and take care of both the kids. If he's really in the "mood" he will give me a really good whole body massage which he knows I HIGHLY appreciate. Dealing with the little ones I can get pretty stressed. If I say I want to go out to eat so I don't have to worry about cooking or doing dishes, most of the time we can, lol, or he'll just cook himself.



My husband is definitely hands on with me and our girls. He doesn't just stay back and make me handle everything, he jumps right in to say "What can I do?" Those are the best words a mother/wife could ever hear :) Man, thinking about this really makes me miss my husband, LOL, COME ON FALL!!

Merry - posted on 08/06/2011

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Matt cooks for me, amazing steaks and pastas and he does a great chicken breast.....yummy
He also will massage my back and feet sometimes, usually when I say we can have sex later he gets all grateful and massages me :) best is when he uses lotion.
Oh and sometimes he will do the dishes or take out garbage when I haven't asked yet. That's a real treat!

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