My daughter a spoil brat

Augiefree44 - posted on 01/24/2018 ( 1 mom has responded )

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I have a daughter that 22 she staring acting out when she was 5 her being the youngest of 4 sisters her oldest sister 32 and she has high functional autism ( Aspergers) I thinking my youngest on the spectrum or bi polar . She hateful but she seems more ugly when she has a boyfriend this her second boyfriend and she act more of a bitch toward us . She broke up with him he was her age . The new guy she been with over a year he 24 he a welder , but while dated he always acuse of cheating she is a pretty girl and a big flirt . But he knew this . They broke up off and off because of his Jealous . My daughter was working on her ged pass all but the math by 30 points and has a job now she quit and always calling and she had to say mom I am I Home and I Hollar yes so he will hear . So now she pregnant and she was on my insurance but they don’t pay for dependent pregnancy , so I kept picking at the father and my daughter to sigh up for Medicaid , she lives with me . And now her boyfriend got a better job 3 hours away from me and her sisters . Anyway she always saying she not letting none of us see her baby . I says good . I bought her baby boy some cute outfits she said take them back she don’t want them . She seems to be acting out more because of her boyfriend I think the idea to move her away so he have better control of her . She drove one of my cars but not taking it . And I tips her after 5 years on my plan I was going to another plan and to get your boyfriend to put you on his and she say she not give out her number I said good . She is alway got to bitch she acts like she unhappy all the time she was outgoing and talk to people now she like don’t take to no one . I think her boyfriend controlling . He acts ok with me to my face b. But I told him you 2 need to grow up and acts like adults you having a baby on the way .. well she due feb 16 . She and her man came got the rest of her stuff out my house because they got a apartment . I haven’t seen her since 3 days before thanksgiving and she came yesterday I was working nights and I woke up which she told me she was coming . But anyways I wanted to see how much bigger she got we’ll she. Had a camflauge jacket on zip up and it was like 76 outside well I went to touch her belly she said don’t touch my belly I says why did you have it she said no she didn’t look like she was pregnant then she Saids I won’t never see her son . I said I don’t care !! I ask her you need help moving stuff she said no and so I went outside see if the baby was in the car but I only seen a small uhaul truck and I went back inside the house I said where your boyfriend he was in the room with the door lock and she started slamming doors I went and lay back down . Then I got back up and ask her again if she had her baby she said no and she got smart and slam the door again and cussing me and I ask her boyfriend did already have the baby he said no . Not sure if she had it or not but she was nasty and I left and slam the house door and haul Ass and stay gone for 3 hours . They were gone . It’s like she ashame she pregnant or something it’s like she didn’t want none of her friends know or family . But it’s ok to tell his family . I am done with her . She knows I never in my life be Afraid of her I never in my life be afraid of my kids . They know I am there for them but I be dam I will put up with abuse

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Leslie - posted on 01/25/2018

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I am so very sorry about all of this. It's a very hard situation to be in but it sounds like she knows she has your love and support if she wants it but she's thrown it away for now. I hope you will continue to try to love her and be there for her if she does come back at some point even though it will be hard. But she does have to learn that life is hard and it sounds like that's the choice she's taken. It does sound like the boyfriend is controlling so hopefully she doesn't get hurt. Not sure what advice I can give other than hang in there and be there if she does come back....

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