bulling by a kid of another race

Deanna - posted on 10/10/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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My daughter is 12, goes to parochial school, straight "A" over achiever. Last year a new kid join their class from another school down the road, cuz according to his mom, everybody picked on him because he is black. Long and short of it, trust me, there is a reason this school was glad to see him leave but now he has become "our" problem. The mother has gone to the principle and obviously referenced and claimed the race thing, cuz this kid is "the acceptation to the rule" on everything with the principle. My daughter is the oldest with 3 boys following so she is good at holding her own and standing her ground. This kid has gone out of his way to bug her, get in her face and has even gotten physical (pushed her down). When she has gone to the principle with it, she ends up being the one feeling quilted or accused and has even taken punishment cuz according to the principle, "that's not the Christian way!" She got a detention cuz she "talked back to the boy and egged him on." Mind you, HE IS THE ONE WHO GOT PHYSICAL!! I am at my ropes end!! Thank God her grades have not dropped, but I am dealing with a very down, negative and depressed pre-teen who has even commented, "what's the point in telling anyone, he can do no wrong in the principles eyes." Right now I want to go to school, take that kid over my knee and give him the spanking of his life, then go to the principle and slap him across the face for what he is teaching my daughter and for taking away her self respect and self esteem. But then I am no better that the bully kid. I have talked to a few school board members, but they "just don't see this principle responding like that". What can I do and who or how should I approach this?!? HELP, before I loose my daughter!!!

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