Don't know what to do !!!!!

Nighdiagerald2001 - posted on 10/28/2015 ( 7 moms have responded )

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Saw shocking messages from my 14 year old daughters phone with her boyfriend there not so pleasing . & I’ve caught them doing something they are not supposed to be doing , She lost all of my respect but , She wants to spend more time with her boyfriend & I don't trust her what do I do ??????

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Amy - posted on 11/13/2015

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This girl needs a reality check before it gets out of control and you have more issues you don't want. Get rid of boyfriend. Tell her, tell him, tell his parents. She's too young for that anyway. Grown women can barely handle the emotional part of a relationship, so a teenager should not be going there. She has plenty of time for all that when she's older. Why the rush? If you've caught something already, then you know where it goes from there. Second, get rid of the phone. We survived without it, so will she. She already has too many distractions, and the phone is fueling that. If you don't trust her, go with your gut. Tough love is hard on everyone but you are doing it for her, because you love her. We always look back at some point and realize our mom's were right. :)

Katie - posted on 11/09/2015

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I had a similar problem with my son. He was sexting with his girlfriend. I wasn't sure what to do until a friend of mine recommend RedRover. It's a new service that alerts you whenever your child is sending inappropriate content. The cool thing was that my son slowly changed his behavior as we chatted more about the long-term consequences of what he was doing.

The website is: http://www.redrover.xyz

Julie - posted on 10/29/2015

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I agree with Sarah. It's very simple. You take the phone away and you do not allow her to see her boyfriend anymore, or at the very least, not without close supervision while they are together.

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