Feeling so hurt my 16 year old daugter decided to go and live with her dad

Anadejerico - posted on 04/23/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Second time going thr same situation, my older daughter(18 at that time ) left out of rage to live with her father , she stayed for three months with him ( I didnt see her those three months ) I have to say that was so horrible , I cry every day , got depresed , she came back saying " it was hell " .Now 3 years later my 16 year old decided to move with her dad , because she doesnt want to move out of her city ( I re married a wonderful man , they love him !! ) We have a good relationship at least I though we had , I have always been there for them no matter what , they know it , after I got divorsed I dedicated my life to them , leaving mine behind , always making sure to be a good example for them , they are good girls ( with tipical age tamtrums lol ) The saddest part is he has never been a good dad and they know that ,he has problems with the law , a violent person , DWIs , drug abused in the past ( not now I guess because he is on probation )the person the lives with him a ex striper that is how they met, with no morals , that didnt hesitated to tell my daughter her disgusting encounters . My two daugters have seen so much violent between them....Now I decided to start a new life not far from home just 1 hour away from where we live , and she just decided to stay with him , he is promising a car and god knows what else suddenly she is someone I dont know , she told me" I dont want to move out of my city , I dont want to live with him but I dont have another option"..plus her dad has a son with her new girfriend( she will be the new mommy baby sitter of the baby ,, i know !!! ) and she ADORES that baby , feels she needs to protect him knowing that both of his parents are unfit parents . Now she talks to me so cold and cruel... I told her I was not going to stop her even though probably I could fight her in court due to her dad record , IM DEVASTATED , I feel so depress AGAIN !!! I FEEL SO BETRAYED BECAUSE SHE KNOWS WHO IS HIM!!!! I PRAY TO GOD SHE GETS TO REALIZED SHE IS MAKING A HUGE MISTAKE ...

I DONT KNOW HOW TO GET OUT OF THIS HOLE OF PAIN AND SADNESS

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Anadejerico - posted on 04/24/2014

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Thank you !!!! I just cant believe this is happening again!!! with my secong daughter ..and still hurts so bad...Im so angry even with myself, because she seems so fine with her decision , caring less how I feel while I feel broken in two pieces . Im moving in the middle of June , she told me she would move when I leave...but I know she is not doing for me, she has a" friend" the one I allowed to be around as long they go out as a group , with my 21 year old daughter included. Her dad is the most MACHO MACHISTA CONTROLING MAN in the world and I know they are scare of his reaction when "boys " are in the picture.

Jackie - posted on 04/24/2014

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Your daughter is just sooo use to having her own way ..as like ..a "spoiled*bratty kid".." Look ..I tell you from experience ..cause my daughter did the same ..and her father had another Bby wit a female he gave Clymydia to ..I knew he was carrying the disease ..because he didn't go to the Dr. to get it treated ..he told me ..but he was always a whore ..slept with multiple females growing up ..because he wasn't faithful to me either ..and I was his Bby momma first and for most ..he cheated on me while I was carrying his Bby ..(nasty n*gga ..haven't talked to him since ..but my daughter too wanted to live with daddy ..(being mad at me) ..and she came back as well ..1or 2 times fold ..(mark my word ..she'll be back ..!!

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