first crush from a girl on my son

Audrey - posted on 05/05/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )

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my 13 year old son has a girl that has a crush on him. she asked for his phone number from a friend of his and then from me a couple weeks ago and my son said he didn't want her to have his phone number. tonight she sent him a text and when he asked how she got his number she said she got it from a friend at school. she attends a different school in a different town and as far as he is aware he has never given his number to any of the kids that go there. so not sure how she got his number. i advised him to let her know that she is just a friend but he doesn't want any more than that. When he texted her back and said that he just considered her a friend she said that's all she thought of him as. when he said ok, she then said he seemed like he was freeked out and she didn't want to think she was being creepy. he let her know that he didn't think she was being creepy just wanted to make sure they were on the same page. he ended by saying they were good.
this is my first experience with this. any advice for me going forward be much appreciated

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Audrey - posted on 05/08/2016

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thanks Sarah for your advice. she hasn't texted him in a couple of days. this is just such a delicate balance he has to figure out. nothing I have ever had to deal with.

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