Girl splitting my two sons and basically turning them against one another.....

Patty - posted on 11/27/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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My sons are 17 and 15 years old well my 17 year old had been with his girlfriend for 4 years more or less and was basically a daughter to us well about a month ago she just broke up with my 17 year old son and got with my 15 year old son. And it has basically split my sons my 17 year old is destroyed on the inside and is depressed and angry his grades have been dropping he is suicidal or so his friends think and he has become destructive and just very very angry with his younger brother. I am not sure what to do my husband thinks we should stay out of it but I disagree and I just have to say I hate this girl with a passion now. What should I do? Has anyone dealt with this before I don’t even know where to start.

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Kelci - posted on 11/29/2012

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I am sorry. I hope your sons reconcile soon. The hardest thing about being a parent of adult age children, seems to be that us moms can no longer fix their problems. If the lines of communication are open between you and the boys I would tell them how much this s hurting you and the family. When they ask what you want for Christmas it sounds like this s your answer and it won't cost them anything monetarily but it will take forgiveness and love. God Bless your family. May God's blessings be in your home!

Patty - posted on 11/27/2012

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I just wish I knew what to do they used to be closer then anything and you couldn't pry them apart but now they want to kill one another.

Kelci - posted on 11/27/2012

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I have two nephews that are in their 30's that have not had a relationship for over 10 years because of this. The girl is long gone but the unforgiveness and appology has never happened. I don't have the answer but if there was a way to take the Family on a vacation that they are alone, no girlfriend, and be in a team building situation which you all have to count on each other to succeed in a activity this might open the lines of communication between them. My nephews were young adults so the do not put themselves together. Ever. Sad end to brothers.

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