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Maria - posted on 12/17/2015 ( 8 moms have responded )

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My 18 year old daughter whom was brought up to be honest with good morals and ethics has been convinced by her 19 year old boyfriend that she is an adult and doesn't have to listen to me or follow my rules. As a result she has moved out to go live with the boyfriend at his family home who's parents let them do what they like. Her part time job has reduced in hours, so she doesn't have much money. I took the car I lent her back because I wanted her to be focused and the car was to be to help her get to uni. But I don't think that will even happen.
She has been so nasty and hurtful. She doesn't call or text at all. Makes no effort to fix the problem she has created within the home! I am a widow of 13 years, I raised my kids alone with no help or support from anyone. I feel hurt. Yesterday was her year 12 formal. I was not included in any of it!
After 12 years of driving her to and from school and preparing her for all catholic sacraments and year 10 formal plus another formal she was invited to,I alone financed all of it too now not even getting a ph call or anything for her year 12! It's hard to think positive when your insides hurt so much.

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Maria - posted on 12/17/2015

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I feel so sorry for anyone that has to go through this, I hope they all come out the other end safe and well

Maria - posted on 12/17/2015

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I know but it still hurts! We were very close. I don't know what I did to be as nasty :(

Maria - posted on 12/17/2015

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She finished year 12 but she used our relationship issues as an excuse with the councillor to get out of a lot of work.

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