hi my name is ella im new to the group i need HELP i have a daughter thats 17 she will be 18 aug 19th she has graduated and worked hard to get where she is today she wants to be a neonatel nurse a baby nurse but now shes throwing all her dreams away and theres nothing i can do about it im livid she met this guy 3 months ago he is no good dont work lives with his mom and hes 19 he has talked her into going to a community collage so she wont be far from him and moving in with him when she turns 18 im heartbroken imbarresed and very upset we are talking about a gurl that has everything a new mustang clothes galore any and everything shes ever wanted shes willing to throw all of it away for him we have done told her if you leave and move in with him you will not take your car and we will not help you at all what di i do here im in crying mood very upset and shocked at this please somebody help

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Mark - posted on 04/23/2014

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Hi Ella,
I watched my older sister go through this with her older teen daughter. She spent countless hours in counseling and looking for any suggestion or answer she could find. The bottom like was still not pretty. She finally sat down with her daughter and explained to her that she would support her in whatever way she could (emotionally...not financially). She also explained to her point of view...that she didn't agree with her decision...and why...but that they would alays be there for her.

To make a long story short....the relationship lasted for just shy of a year before it fell apart. My niece is living with her parents again and trying to get herself back together. The sad truth is...kids do things that hurt...and all we can do is try to be there for them when real life knocks them down. Good luck to you

Alok - posted on 04/12/2014

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Keep patience believe in God there is a solution for every problem be a good person think a little and you will get the answer

Ella - posted on 06/29/2013

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also she has ran away with him 2 times now she even took all her clothes the second time and thats alot

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