how can you handle youre teenager daughter?

Cristina - posted on 11/19/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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i am a mother of 15yr old daughter.shes turning 16 on december 19.she so stubburn.everyday she always left the house and wearing her uniform for school but she never going in there. she went to her friends,they drunk,i dont know if they take drugs..then she has a boyfriend who is a member of "gang or fratirnity".i dont like this guy for her but she insist it.i gave them a chance,i let the guy went to our house to visit her,but still she wants to go around.shes the one whos going to his boyfriend house too.and sometimes not going home.i tried so many times to get my daughter to that guy.i hate his parents because they just tolerate them! and now this is the worst,since friday november 16 2012,my daughter left us again and never coming back till now,i dont know what to do.many of my friends told me,"let here be!one day she will realise everything she have done".but i cant just stay,sitdown and wait what will happen next.i want my child back.im planning to ask advice from the DSWD.maybe they can help me what to do..is it okay if im going to make this way?pls co-mom's help me!thanks and good day

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Kathy - posted on 11/20/2012

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it's a hard decision for you....if you interfere I don't think it will work....I left home at 1 for a boy that wasn't good for me and my parents didn't want me to be with him....when they forbid me from seeing him, I left home....now the important part, I finally saw what they did and ended up coming home and so will your daughter Im sure....it's hard to sit and wait but they are stubborn and will do what they want and no talking/crying etc will help. but rest assured, she will get tired of this guy and realize mom was right.. hope this helped a bit.

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Cristina - posted on 11/20/2012

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thank you kathy..last night her bestfriend came,we talk about what my daughter.im so afraid because they told me that my daughter is not taking marijuana..drug is involve and sad to hear also that she starts to get a thing thats not belong to her. she did that to me also and her kuya.what if shes going to be a thief?criminal..

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