I feel so ALONE.

Katen - posted on 09/04/2016 ( 4 moms have responded )

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My 14 year old son has had behavior problems since he was a toddler. Ive done everything i know how. Therapy. Medicine. Mentors. Prayer. Church. Tutors. My son just doesn't want the help. Has now in the 7th grade for the 3rd time , this is the 2nd week of school & the teachers are calling already. It's the holiday weekend & we are home because when I take him to families house he disrespects everybody & bullies their kid. Im a prisoner in my own home. I've tried to get him admitted to a behavioral hospital but he's not suicidal or commited a crime they won't take him. God I need help. I have no one to talk too. No one can relate. I know they're probably no answers I just needed to cry and vent and ask for prayers. His name is Cameron. Thanks

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Linda - posted on 09/17/2016

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God is with you:) You are never alone. His word says those who are weary that come to him will find rest. I can relate I have a 5 year old with behavioral issues and right now she's on medication and in play therapy. It has definitely made me dig deeper into God's word and find all the resources I can for this because I also have two teenage girls and a baby at home. At first it was hard because I felt the same, alone but then I realized I'm not. God is with me and he fights my battles. He's my father and yours, a great listener and defends in your honor. Without him, I wouldn't be able to have a peaceful home and get through this. I know he can do the same for you and your son. Sometimes there is only so much we can do and just need to hand it over to God and let God work in your life. I pray God will bring the right solutions, right people that will help not hinder your situation and for you and your family. Remember, you are blessed, loved and bought at a price and that little boy is a gift from God:)

Sara - posted on 09/15/2016

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YOU ARNT ALONE...me too! Is it something about Cameron's? I too have a Cameron he is 16 years old is 6ft 3 (192cm) in height and weighs 18stone (115kg).... Im at my wits end and too feel hopeless and alone, I have no support and I certainly have no control as with his size and shear strength...what can I do? His biological father left us due to his behaviour when he was 5 , he was excluded from various schools then out into a specialist school for two years...he improved greatly and we were told he no longer needed to be there and he didn't. He is mostly fine at school everyone loves him, he is a very sociable character and like to talk, he has come a long way from his early days. he is diagnosed with ADHD and Possible Aspergers Difference. He was really settled until the hormones kicked in, we were warned by his psychiatrist when he was young that the teenage years would fire up a whole load of aggression and problems..he wasn't wrong. Just a hour ago for example getting him too school is a nightmare..screaming at me telling me to F Off!, shut your mouth etc etc, that I don't ever do anything for him, I'm the worst parent in the world etc etc. he seems to forget I'm the only one whose stood by him from day one, ive always been there to defend him against the abuse and the bullies, I've put my heart and health on the line so many times to help him. Sometimes I feel so mad and upset I just want him to leave that's how bad it has got. He refuses to take any of his ADHD med and hasn't for a year at least...as he is off sound mind and now legally an adult here...there is nothing I can do. I sold my home left my job and moved 850 miles away to a quite island as back down south he was just a number due to huge population and also with that came huge amounts of bullying, he loves it here...yet still I have done nothing for him........and too make matters worse the father who left him...he keeps threatening that he wants to live with him and not me as at least Dads done something for me,materialistic things yes, he is wealthy I'm not,but love attention care
compassion, no....and apparently that means nothing..........too be honest I just can't cope anymore, I'm out of steam and I just feel like giving up, but despite this apparent hate from a boy who used to love me so...I love him with my whole heart but he is breaking mine everyday X

Rommom6201 - posted on 09/13/2016

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Oh, sweet momma! You are not alone. I can tell that you are a woman of faith. I know that in these times of struggle he is holding onto us even when our feelings tell us otherwise. Isaiah 41:10 says, "Do not fear, for I am your God. I will strengthen you; I will help you; I will hold onto you with my righteous right hand." He's holding onto you with His righteous right hand. He's on your side and fighting this battle for you. I know it's difficult to wait, but don't give up! "Draw near to God and he will draw near to you." Dive into the word of God and surround yourself with His people. Continue to ask for prayers and be ready for him to answer your hearts cry in His time. I am praying for Cameron!

Meg - posted on 09/10/2016

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This won't last forever, though it seems like eternity right now. Please know that you are not alone. Life is tough and you are walking through it as best as you can right now. Cameron is struggling too. Teen guys struggle a lot at this age and they don't really know how to express what the problem is, or why they are acting out. Could you possibly take a short break for a morning once a week? Is there a Mom's care group at church or a prayer group that you could join to get some support locally? You will make it through this, and I'm in your corner friend. Praying over you and your dear son ❤️. I believe there is hope for you both to have a better relationship in the near future. Its clear you love him very much! Don't give up Mama 🙏🏼

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