i want to know if my babygirl is a virging she told me a boy push his fingure in her for a good feeling but she started bleeding n it wasnt her periods


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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/24/2013




Regardless of your "definition" of virginity, it is time that you and your daughter get educated on sex. From the sounds of it, neither of you really have any good idea on the subject.

So, if you don't want "babygirl" to have a baby of her own, start educating NOW.

Dana - posted on 01/24/2013




I agree with the post before me. To me she is still a virgin. There has been no penis contact.And yes many of us have torn our hymen just by using tampons. This is what most likely caused her to bleed.Lets keep talking tour daughters. The fact is your daughter is experimenting. Get her more information about sex. Lets get her protected with knowledge and yes condoms because she is and boyfriend and testing the waters. Be safe.

Denikka - posted on 01/24/2013




Virginity has a variety or meanings to the individual. For some, as long as there isn't a penis inside the girl, then she's still a virgin. On the other side, some view losing virginity as soon as there is ANY sexual contact.
You and your daughter will need to decide for yourselves what virginity means to each of you.

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