Is is normal or ok to have teenage daughter boyfriend sleeping over??

Martha - posted on 09/09/2019 ( 1 mom has responded )




Hi all, I am having a tough time with my step teen daughter, just turned 18, sneaking her BF in, staying the night and sneaking out in the early AM. We do allow my daughter, also 18, and SD to have their BF's over, hanging out in their rooms, door open and need to leave when my husband and I go to bed. We do allow them to stay later on the weekends but in the family room only after we go to bed.

I do not feel comfortable having the boys stay the night, I feel that is inappropriate and disrespectful. My daughters BF, 18, does respect my rules and leaves at a descent hour always. My daughter and her BF are not having sex YET (still pure) and my SD is...

I just need to know if this is normal to feel this way or am I over reacting...

Thank you


Jessica - posted on 09/22/2019




Yes, I would say it is normal to feel that way about it. I would feel the same way for the most part.

And I would also say it is normal for your step daughter to rebel and try sneaking him in at that age.

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