My 13 year old son is becoming a sex maniac

Viviana - posted on 07/26/2010 ( 7 moms have responded )

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Hello, It may sound funny but his hormones have him crazy....all he thinks about is girls with big boobs....how can I get him to think about other things...He´s in waterpolo

to keep busy ...but need more ideas help!!!!

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Isabella - posted on 09/07/2013

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Sit down with him and tell him that girl are not objects and they have feelings too.
They are self-conscious and not all of them are women with large breasts and confident.

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Pray for him....Go to his bedroom and kneel by his bed when he is not there and pray only about him and the issue at hand. Also see if you can get him into a counseler (Christian one) if need to that won't hurt. God bless you and your family I will keep you and your family in prayer.

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Mom, you are just going to have to live with it. Men and boys usually go girl crazy around age 12. All you can do is teach him how to be respectful towards yourself, his female family members, and other women. I teach 8th grade and am surrounded by 13 and 14 year old children every day. It's obvious to me when they leave the class what their minds were focused on during the class. Hang in there hon, you will survive.

Louise - posted on 07/29/2010

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As a mother of two teenage boys myself I have been through this stage. Just tell him straight you think the constant referance to girls bodies is disrepectful and you don't want to hear it. Tell him you find it offensive and want him to stop. Also tell him there is nothing wrong with chatting with his mates but it is not a conversation you want to hear. If nothing else your home should be a sanctuary, and your son should respect the rules of the house. My sons are now nearly 19 and 16 with girlfriends and they do not leer at women or make comment infront of me as they know I do not like it.

Christie - posted on 07/29/2010

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Does he hear his step dad talk about boobs all the time? Perhaps "dad" talks about it and noone thinks that he has heard or whatever. Maybe pay attention as to whether or not Dad talks about boobs and sex all the time and then that might need to change. Like the other moms said..he needs to understand that these young ladies are human and truely if he isn't careful he is going to make a comment to the wrong girl and she is either going to knock him on his ass or the girls dad is going to go to the police for sexual harrassment. Good Luck!

Keri - posted on 07/27/2010

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there really isn't much that you can do other than to explain to him that he needs to be respectful to girls, no matter what size their chest is for one. He may eventually get over it. Teenage boys like to look at girls and with most girls already having boobs at his age and him being around them the only thing you can do is teach him to be respectful. I have a 15 year old and he likes to look at girls, he will point them out to his step dad or to me and make a comment, but not where she would notice and he flirts like no tomorrow. But he is very respectful about it and doesn't really talk nasty or anything, just basically lets us know he looked and likes her and what our opionion is. It takes a while for them to realize. Maybe ask him how he would feel if girls were talking about thier penis size or package. If you can spin it around on him he might start to understand.

Cara - posted on 07/26/2010

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It sounds like he is thinking of girls as sex objects and not as people with feelings and goals and such. I would seriously check into his entertainment, and what he is being exposed to, as he has to be learning it somewhere.
Then I would talk to him about what kind of person he wants to be. All the girls I know want to be respected for things other than their boobs. His attitude might cause him to lose girls as friends.
That is all I can think of at the moment.

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