My 14 year old son

Adriana Marie - posted on 03/12/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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So has has no father and all sisters, and just the other day me and him got into an argument about the sports and activities he is doing..Well I found out earlier that day that he wasn't actually going to these, and I was told by other mothers tht the have a teen hangout place (the "Skatepark") where they all have sex and do drugs. So I was in a fight with him and he got so mad he screamed in my face that " HE WAS NOT A VIRGIN AND IN FACT HE'S STILL HAVING SEX RIGHT NOW IN HIS IMAGINAITION."...then he called me a bitch and walked away....I don't know how ot react to what he said to me...I thought he was too young...But I guess the 21st century.....Also he thinks its a joke..he laughs at me when I try to tlk to him..I think its the lack of male authority in his life, he has no one to look up to...What should I do with him?

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Irene - posted on 03/18/2014

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I am almost in the same boat you are I know it is hard if there is not a father there and I give you all the thumbs up but I always drill in my sons head about the fact of life and when I do tell him he laughs but it is embarrassing when they hear it come from the mom but you got to do what u got to do to keep them safe and I always drill in my sons head about drugs and always tell him it can lead into wrong things well I hope everything works out for you :-) have you tried having a one on one with him bc it works for my son not all the time but it is a start and eventually my son is starting to open up to me a little

Adriana Marie - posted on 03/12/2014

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Plz, I need some help with him he is way out of control right now, He is a goodlooking boy also, blonde hair and blue eyes, and abs...idk wht to do..i need to know if its him or peer pressure

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