
Katrece LaShaun - posted on 10/18/2017 ( 5 moms have responded )
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Both times that I trusted her to go out with a female friend,She ended up with a boy having sex!!! How do I trust her to go anywhere since she's already betrayed me more than once?
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Patty - posted on 02/06/2018
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Teens have sex, it's not the end of the world. Hopefully you've had lots of talks about consent and birth control.
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I am a mother of two girls, age 19 and 18.
Both of them lost their virginity at the age of 15.
Rita - posted on 10/19/2017
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First clarify whether or not you want her to not have sex or to not get pregnant. A teenager pregnancy is probably the worst thing that can happen to a girl because she'll need to spend a good chunk of her life on hold as she raises a child. I don't believe in abortion. Teen guys don't man up and become responsible fathers either, so she'd be on her own.
If your goal is to prevent a pregnancy then get her on birth control or give her condoms and make sure she knows how to use them and uses them all the time.
If you want her to stop having sex period then look up chastity belts online. They're usually sold in bdsm sex shops. It's crude and repressive but there's no other way your going to stop her from having sex. Just have her agree to wear it if she's out of the house and you hold the keys otherwise punish her somehow or ground her to make sure she stays hold.
I don't think you can stop her from having sex unless you either lock her up or lock her genitals up. Birth control is a harm reduction solution and I think is the best solution here. I know it's hard for your child to start to become sexual but you were her age once too and I'm sure you were plenty interested in sex, right?
I wish you and your family the best of luck.