My 16jr. old son is staying with his girlfriend

Aletta - posted on 04/01/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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My son does not want to come home. He is just bumming at his girlfriends house. I do not know why her parents let him stay there with out contribution. He does not want to submit to our rules and thinks he is spiting us by staying away. What can I do? I have spoken to him nicely, but he wants us to do as he determent and is calling us names. When he wants something he is quick to call.
I was thinking to present him with a type of divorce contract, where by he agrees to disown himself from us, if he would like. (Just to see his reaction) I love him so much and cry my eyes out for him every night. He says that we have cause him to be the way he is, that it is all our fold. I am at the end of my rope now. I do not know what to do anymore. I do not understand how these other people think and why they let him stay there, like he does not have a home. He most probably have lied about us and I do not want to push him further away by even going to or trying to talk to them. His girlfriend know us and our home, she knows how much we love him so I hope she tells her parents the truth. I don't know, I am so desperate. I just want my son to come home, finish his school and find a job and a good life. He is handsome, clever and so special.

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Holly - posted on 04/03/2013

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can't you get authorities involved as this is him technically being a run away?

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