My 17 yr old son, didn't like the house rules. So he up and moved out a few days ago.

Paula - posted on 10/14/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )

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My son is smart, great kid... But for the last five months he has really been trying to assert his independence in life. Wanting only to follow his own rules and no house rules. Has starting skipping at least one to two classes a week in grade 12(this year) and when I approached him....... All sh!t hit the fan. It was none of my business I am grown up and you have no right to medal in my life. I tried to explain since he is still under age and living under my roof he needs to follow our rules, while in the same aspect we respect his need to be an adult (which we have comprised on things for him) He proceeded to tell me I am the worst mother ever and hates me. And that if I wouldn't let him do whatever he wants and not bother him, then he would move out and screw me. Which he did Saturday.. :(

I am so many emotions right now... Sad, because the person who I have love and raised (all alone for the first 12 yrs) says he hates me and I do not right. Angry, because I have done everything in life with him, and for him and it is never enough. Scared, because he is gone (although I know he is safe). Worried as he is in his last yr of high school and all I want for him is to succeed. Confused, because I don't understand.....Alone. Because I don't know anyone with children his age that have gone through this and do to his age no one can or will do anything.

I know I am not a bad mother, I have lived and breathed for him for over 17 years. But it is still so hard to hear it......

Please help

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User - posted on 10/15/2014

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I feel for you as your story mirrors mine...I hope for both of us there is a positive outcome

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