My 18 daughter is pregnant. Still in school 11th grade. I am so upset. I want her to have a abortion. I found out because she was gaining weight. So I had her tested. She lied and no she will not tell me who the father is. I am pissed off. I told her why she did this. She just keep lying. Now I want her to know I love her but im so mad. See we are very poor and we live with a friend and I am out of work. No money coming in. And now a baby's coming. What do I do. Please help me please.

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/03/2014

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Ok, well, first off, still in HS or not, your daughter is an adult. The choice to abort is hers and her partner's. NOT YOURS.

Second, if she wants to keep the baby, she's an adult, and has every right to do so. I do encourage her to have paternity established, and have her partner fully involved, or paying support.

Third, if you love her, you love her. If you're allowing the anger to overtake the love, you need to step back and re-evaluate yourself.

Best of luck to your daughter, and her partner!

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