my beautiful 36 yr old son just informed me he raped when 12 yr old

Jeanne - posted on 10/26/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )

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my son was having a disagreement with me and stated how would you like to be raped .i was so shock I can not stop crying...... my husband could not believe what we just heard ... we moved from PA to AZ when he was 16 yrs old I was always very careful where my kids were .and with whom so I called him. ask him did this happen in Pa .was it xxxxxx grandson.. yes he stated who was 20 yrs old at the time.so my son was 12 yrs old at the time . so this statutory rape. I informed him he can still press charges . under Pa law he has till he 50 yrs old since he was a minor at the time so far need does not want to report I RESPECT his decision .... but this sex offender who is now 44 yrs old has been free to seek other victims I think the police need to know . should I call his father. still crying... so painful someone hurt my baby....... my son is a wonderful man married with 4 sons..

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Melissa - posted on 11/04/2015

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Hello Jeanne,
You and your family will surely be in my prayers! God will make it easier for all of you keep courage. Im sure you have been the best mom you could have possibly be don't blame yourself at all. You worked hard to ensure your kids had everything you didn't have. Keep praying girl friend!

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Jeanne - posted on 11/04/2015

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Hello Melissa, thank you so much . Called to see if I did everything I could under the law my son would have to report it he has till he 50 yrs old . the officer that I talk to said when he ready he did say some people can deal with it the most important issue is how is my son doing the system need to be change there should be no limitation rape just like murder . I did give him the name of the child rapist . I did inform cousin but they said the rapist father and son are in trouble all the time . and they do not have any thing to do with them. so now I gave it to the Lord My son said I am great mom and does not hold me accountable at all. but that not what I feel I will have to live with this guilt to the day that I die I have hand it over to God thank you for your prayers . I am taking it slow hour by hour,day by day do you know 70% of rapes go unreported.

Jeanne - posted on 10/28/2015

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Hello Melissa, I am having a hard time with this the guilt. crying all night just brokenhearted i am 61 yrs old I think back of the clues I miss as a mom .I am a nurse .retired now these friends that visit where old family friends (both deceased now), and they had their 20 yr old grandson with them ( i have only seen this kid 4 X in my life this biological mom died when he was approx 5- 6 of age .) he told advantage of my son.. I did go to my doctor today and told him. He did agree that the family of the child rapist should be notified . I had already call a cousin and informed him of what his cousin did and he did report it to all families. he did say that he is in trouble all the time will report this because it the right thing to do my son I will respect his wishes ,My son tells be it about him not me i do not agree ,. But now it about protecting others children , please pray for me. . and thank you so much best wishes to you and your families .........

Melissa - posted on 10/28/2015

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omg this is horrendous. I think for his sons sake he should ensure that this man pay. by him not doing anything about it, is putting a lot of innocent people at risk. kids esp. I know that this could be an embarrassing thing for him but I would have dealt with it somehow! those evil souls needs to be punished for hurting people esp kids.

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