My daughter hates me all of a sudden

Kelly - posted on 07/16/2016 ( 6 moms have responded )

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Hi
My daughter will be 18 tomorrow and I'm a single mom. I have done everything for her. She has new friends now for under a year. One of them is her girlfriend, this I supported her with. Now all of a sudden in the past month she's been mean to me and doesn't want to do anything with me. We have 1 car and because I needed it the other day she flipped out. The girl ended up picking her up. I read the texts between them on her laptop. I knew something wasn't right about this girl. My daughter was bashing me, calling me names etc... And this girl who just turned 17 was also bashing me and adding fuel to the fire. I've done nothing but be nice to any of her friends. Drive them to concerts etc... I happened to be on the phone with my mom and she snuck in and heard I read the texts. This was the first time I had ever done this. And now everything is ruined. She took off to this girls house and I don't know what to do.
Thanks for any help

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Kelly - posted on 07/16/2016

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Thank you so much I really appreciate it.. that's just what I'll have to do. I have since kept my keys in my purse and my mom has the extra set. Just by you replying you have made me feel better and welcome to the grouo.

Kelly - posted on 07/16/2016

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Hi thank you for the input. I wanted to try to make the post as short as possible. She did break house rules the night before by taking my cAR without permission while I was sleeping. I did apologize to her but she will not accept it. I have never looked at any of her private things before. She was a great kid and respectful to me up until about a month ago. I don't know what triggered it but I will tell you that I work full time and come home. I put my kids first after my divorce and their father found a "new" family and hasn't supported them emotionally for at least 10 years.
We also live with my mother because I've been in a stagnant job with no raise in 10 years. I had her in therapy after the divorce and any time I mention going it's shot down

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